Monday, September 6, 2010

SOLUTION FOR PLAYERS OF OUR FAMILY- IF AGREED!!!/...Published on 9/6/10, 11:08 AM Pacific Standard Time

I THINK IF ANYONE FEEL THAT THEY ARE GETTING SIDELINED OR IGNORED IN MY FAMILY, I CAN PUT MY FAMILY TREE HERE.AS, IF FAMILY IS IN YOUR 'MUTTHI',AND YOU HAVE GOOD CO-ORDINATION BETWEEN EACH OTHER,AUTOMATICALLY ONE'S GRAPH GOES UP.I'LL CONSTANTLY WRITE ABOUT PEOPLE'S REMARKABLE OR MENTIONABLE ACHIEVEMENTS AT HOME OR OF THEIR WORK PLACE,OR COLLEGE OR IN SCHOOLS,INCLUDING MINE AS WELL....OR ANY RELATED ISSUES,WHICH NEEDS TO BE HIGHLIGHTED!!

FOR EXAMPLE,SUDHIRJI REPRESENTS MEDIA, AND SPECIALLY CARTOONING, SO AS ADITI REPRESTS MEDIA SPECIALLY PHOTOGRAPHY, ATLEAST TILL NOW,BESIDES BEING ' TAILANG FAMILY' MEMBER.

I WAS NOT PLAYING ANY GAME EVER,BUT FEW THINGS AND TEAMS EVOLVE LIKE THIS.

...REST IS NOT IN MY HAND. ANYONE NEED TO KNOW ANYONE'S VIEW OF MY HOME MEMBERS,ON ANY TOPIC AS A PANELIST OR AS INTERVIEWEE, PLZ CONTACT ME OR SUDHIRJI ON 011-22778113(H), OR VIA vibhatailang@gmail.com,or sudhirtailang@gmail.com...!!

(AS MAYBE OTHER PEOPLE NEED TO HEAR OTHERS VIEWS ALSO.)

I'LL FORWARD YOUR REQUEST.BUT ANY KIND OF ANY NUISENCE WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. ITS MY HUMBLE REQUEST PLEASE.

ALL OF THEM ARE BASICALLY BHARTIYA, WITH PINCH OF HINDUSTANIYAT,AND MIX OF INDIANNESS!!...REST OF THINGS, ONE ASK THEM DIRECTLY. I AM SURE THEY WILL COME WITH FULL PREPARATIONS AND LIVE UPTO THE EXPECTATIONS,THOUGH NO ONE IS PUBLICITY OR POWER HUNGRY, AND ALL OF THEM GIVE PREFERENCE TO SELF RESPECT OVER ANY GREED,THEY ALL ARE HONEST AND HARD WORKING!!....NEITHER IN THE RACE FOR 'CHIDIYA CHUGG GAYEE KHET'.

...NEITHER THEY HAVE TAKEN 'BIRRAH' OF CORRECTING ANYTHING LIKE ME!!

....SO NO NEED FOR THEM TO BE VERY PATIENT AND HEAR ANY SO CALLED 'FALTU BATEIN,OR SUNAO TO ANYONE'

...AND BY NOW,THINGS ARE MADE CLEARER AND EASIER FOR EVERYONE,AS THEY ALL ARE KNOWN IN THEIR OWN CIRCLE!!...APART FROM THEIR FAMILIES, THEY ALL BY NOW KNOW ABOUT THEMSELF, WHEN THEY STAND IN FRONT OF THEIR MIRROR,ABOUT THEIR QUALITIES AND FLAWS AND THEIR OWN REALITIES!!!

(SUDHIRJI AND OTHER MEMBERS DO TACKLE THINGS IN THEIR OWN WAY,IT MAY GO HERE AND THERE AT TIMES,WHICH SOUNDS WRONG,...BUT NOW THINGS WILL BE SIMPLER.)

AND I AM SURE MUST BE WORKING ON IT, AS THEY ALL ARE AWARE OF ALL FACTS AND WHATS HAPPENNING AROUND. AND CAN HANDLE ANYKIND OF PRESSURE,NO ONE IS 'KHAANDIT MURTHY' AS USE TO SHOWN IN EKTAJI'S SERIAL EARLER(EKTAJI MAKES NICE SERIALS,I AM NOT CRITICISING)...AS ITS TOUGH TO DEFINE WHAT IS 'KHAANDIT', EXCEPT THAT, SOMETHING IN MURTHI WHICH DISTRACT'S PEOPLE WHILE OFFERING POOJA!!...OR IF I SAY IT POSITIVLY, THEN ITS ATTRACTS PEOPLE TOWARDS THAT MURTHI.

AND ITS NOT A DEVIL'S TALK.

ITS YOU ALL TO DECIDE HOW AND WHY ANYONE CAN BE FINISHED OR SHOULD FINISHED?? WHY TO SAY ANYONE IS DEVIL OR IS IT INDISPENSIBLE???

I AM WRITING THIS AS I AM HEARING/SEEING MANY POINTS AND QUESTIONS IN YOUR ALL EYES/WORDS.

IF ANY COMPANY,COMMITTEES,POLITICAL PARTIES,OR WORKPLACES OFFERS ANY BETTER OPPORTUNITIES SUITABLE TO MEMBERS OF OUR FAMILIES JOB PROFILES,INTERESTS,QUALIFICATIONS,HUNGER FOR WORK,PRIORITIES OR CAPABILITIES OR ABILITIES,MERITS(ONE CAN READY TO FACE AN INTERVIEW)!!....OR EVEN TO HOUSE WIVES, BEGINNERS,STUDENTS,YOU DON'T NEED TO COME HOME TO TAKE INTERVIEWS(I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT PRESS INTERVIEW-FOR THAT YOU'LL ARE WELCOME), OR SPEAK VIA VISUAL/VIRTUAL MEDIA/MEDIUM!!...PLZ SEND A REQUEST,OR JUST A MAIL, I'LL FORWARD IT TO THE RELATED PERSON,AND WITH EVERYONE'S CONSENT AND PERMISSION IN FAMILY, IF THEY HAVE INTEREST,AND THEIR PRIORITIES ALLOWS THEM, THEY CAN CONTACT THE RELATED PERSON (SENDER)DIRECTLY.

DEFINITLY IF THEY WILL DO GOOD JOB, AND PERFORM WELL,WILL ATTRACT MEDIA ATTENTIONS AND CAN GET COVERED BY MEDIA.BUT NO, I CANNOT ACT AS 'A CHARAAN' OR 'MEDIA PUBLICIST' FOR ANYONE 'TOTALLY'. I CAN WRITE THEIR ACHIEVEMENTS IF NECCESSARY IF THEY WISH, AND WRITE MY COMMENTS AS WELL,IF ANYTHING WILL GO WRONG IN MY VIEW AND PERSPECTIVE,JUST FOR A SUGGESTIONS.

IF RELATED PERSON THINK'S ITS WORTHY, ITS WELL AND GOOD. BUT THEN, IT WILL BE A 'PART TIME WORK'!!!

...EQUAL DISTRIBUTION OF SPACE FOR THEM WHO REALLY HAS HUNGER TO DO SOME THING MORE OR PERFORM WELL, AND WORK HARDER...WITH BALANCING EVERYTHING IN LIFE, BUT NO, I AM NOT GOING TO TAKE THIS CRITICISM THAT I RUINED ANYONE'S IMAGE OR REPUTATION, ANYMORE.IT HAPPENED BECOZ OF 'UFFAN' IN SITUATIONS, AND IT CAN HAPPEN AGAIN,IF WE DOES NOT TAKE CARE OF IT, OR IF SUCH 'ISSUES ARISES'. EVERYONE TRY TO CONTROL IT BY SELF IMPOSED DISCIPLINE,AND SELF REGULATIONS,INCLUDING HANLING OR SPINNING IT WELL.

DEFINITLY, EVEN I HAVE TAKEN 'PANGA' AT TIMES, BY CALLING SPADE A SPADE. FOR EXAMPLE ONE OF MY JOURNALIST FRIEND IN FACEBOOK UPLOADED A CLIPPING OF AISHWARYA'S INTERVIEW FOR BBC, ITS ABOUT HER LIFE,CAREER,ARRANGE MARRIAGE,SAAS-BAHU RELATIONS...ETC... !!

I WROTE 2 LINES COMMENT ON THAT- MENTIONING MR SALMAN KHAN. I AM SURE THAT OFFENDED HIM,AS IT MUST HAVE REACHED TO HIM INDIRECTLY.WELL, I LIKE YOUR WORK AND YOU SALMANJI, KAMIYIAN SABHI MEIN HOTI HEIN, ZAROORAT SE ZYAADA EMOTIONAL HONA BHI NUKSAANDEH HAI.

(BADLA NAHIN LENE KA, VAISE BHI 'MUNNI' SONG HAS BECOME NATIONAL ANTHEM ON TV ATLEAST. GOOD WISHES FOR YOUR MOVIE'DABAANG'.SHATRUJI IS OUR FRIEND. CONGRATS AND GOOD WISHES TO HIS DAUGHTER SONAKSHI FOR HER DEBUT MOVIE.).

I BELIEVE IN TALKING ABOUT ISSUES AND WORKING FOR CAUSES,I WILL STILL DO THAT!!...BUT WILL NOT LEAVE THIS 'SELF IMPOSED OR SELF CREATED' OR AS SOME SAY ' SELF CENTRIC' RESPONSIBILITIES. WHETHER YOU ALL TAKE IT SERIOUSLY OR NOT,ITS YOUR ALL PREROGATIVE. I BELIEVE IF ONE HAS CREDIBILITY,PEOPLE WILL LISTEN TO HIS/HER VIEWS,WHETHER ONE AGREE WITH IT OR NOT.OR WHETHER THEY FOLLOW IT OR NOT.AND CREDIBILITY CAN BE MADE OR RESTORED BY WORKING ONCE AGAIN ON THE FIELD.WHICH I REALLY WANT TO.WHETHER FOR THAT I HAVE TO FACE FAILURE. I AM NOT IN ANY HAAR OR JEET'S RAT RACE,NEITHER WAITING FOR ANYONE TO GIVE OUT OF WAY SUPPORT.ONE SHOULD GET,AS MUCH THEY DESERVE.BAKI TOOOO KISMAT HAI.

(I WAS NEVER BEEN INVOLVED IN ANY 'POPULATION CONTROL CELL COMMITTEE OF CENTRAL GOVERNMENT', MADE BY THEN (NDA)GOVERNMENT CONSISTS OF CM'S OF DIFFERENT STATES 11YRS BACK),BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT PEOPLE THOUGHT, BUT IN SO MANY YEARS EVERYTHING EVOLVED,(IT WAS A CHAIN REACTION THEN,SO AS EVEN THIS TIME)...FOR GOOD AND FOR BAD ALSO...WHICH EVER WAY ONE WANT,CAN SEE THE THINGS.

BUT I AM SURE NOW WE ALL PROGRESS AND PROSPER WITHOUT CONTROVERSIES AND GOSSIPS.

AND FRIENDS AND VISITORS CAN ALSO SHARE THEIR PROBLEMS,REMARKABLE ACHIEVEMENTS,VIEWS ON ANYTHING,ABOUT THEIR NEIGHBOURHOOD,STATE.PERSONAL PROBLEMS,ISSUES,CAUSES... IF NECCESSARY!!!

...WHATEVER(AS THEY DOES ALREADY...FOR EXAMPLE IN MANY OCCASSION PEOPLE CAME TO SUDHIRJI FOR PRESS COVERAGE,OR GET SOME PROBLEMS SOLVED,LIKE WHEN MOKEY BECOME MENANCE HERE, PEOPLE CAME TO HIM AND HE TALKED TO MS IQBAL MALIK REGARDING THIS AND MCD PEOPLE AND PROBLEM GOT SOLVED,SO AS IN MANY SUCH OTHER OCCASIONS. SO AS IN HARDAYAL PUBLIC LIBRARY PEOPLE CAME TO ME TO HELP THEM!!!).!!

BUT NO DICTATORSHIP PLEASE,I CAN TAKE ONLY SUDHIRJI'S DICTATE,OR CAN DICTATE HIM OCCASIONALLY...REST,ONLY SUGGESTIONS ARE WELCOME!!...THAT ALSO, IF NECCESSARY.

SUDHIRJI IS ONE PERSON WHO HAS ALWAYS SUPPORTED ME IN ALL MY THICK AND THIN,ALL WORK,PHYSICALLY,MENTALLY,FINANCIALLY....WHETHER HE AGREES WITH MY IDEA OR NOT,...SAHMAT HOON YA NA HOON,VERBALLY VIRODH KAREIN FHIR BHI,....AND DEFINITLY TRY TO SAVE THE SITUATION WHEN I AM IN TROUBLE, AS IT HAPPENED IN MY SEMINAR.
PRIVATLY WHAT WE TALK IS A DIFFERENT MATTER. EVEN ADITI HAD TEARS FOR A WHILE IN HER EYES THAT DAY,WHEN SEMINAR WAS NOT A HIT,....SHE DIDN'T SAID 'GHAR KE CHAAT PER PROGRAMME KAR LETE TOO THIK THA' OR NEITHER REDICULED ME SAYING...'MEIN HOTI/HOTA TOOO KUCCH AUR HOTA'. ...ANYWAY,I AM NOT OFFENDED BY THESE REMARKS,ITS PART OF ANYONE'S LIFE...SOCIAL WORK IS NOT MEANT FOR A HIT AND A FLOP,OR PASS N FAIL,WIN OR LOSE!! IF ONLY FEW PEOPLE CAN GET BENIFITTED BY YOU,ITS WELL AND GOOD. THOUGH NEXT PROGRAMME WAS GOOD IN M.V.2) !!!

. ....WELL!'IF MY THIS SELF CREATED PLATFORM' IS TAKEN SERIOUSLY,AND HAS CREDIBILITY AND RELEVANCE,THEN ITS OPEN FOR ALL, BUT MY TEAM IS MORE IMPORTANT FOR ME(SUDHIRJI/SUDHIR AND ADITI/CHINU)...SO AS A FAMILY PERSON!!

-'CHAHE KOI MUJHE BADHAVA DE YA NA DE,AS TOLD BY SOMEONE TOOOO ME' "KOI AAPKO BADHAVA NAHIN DENA CHAHTA HAI"...THOUGH IN SO MANY YEARS..AND BY 2010/ 10 SEPTEMBER. THESE PEOPLE VIEWS MUST HAVE CHANGED."

AND IF NOT,THEN DO NOT CONTACT ME OR TALK TO ME PLEASE!!

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