Our Family Tree!!!....Lets see how much I remember!!!
My Parental Side-
My Dadaji was a villager, well to do farmer lived in Naugachia(Kathela)..Bhagalpur..Bihar.
He was nice, simple person,very religious(Bhagvatiji's devotee) but it was my dadiji who was dominating, short tempered but very affectionate and very good cook... and used to take care of everything...was very good in calculations.
My Papaji was only son and had four younger sisters. Dadaji died early...but by then my father had struggled alot, taught science in a school for two years so that that school get status of higher secondry school.
After he got through PMT and joined Patna Medical College, in vacations he used to do kheti-baari...got married(he was 24 and mummyji was 15+),...got all sis married...joined Sindri FCI...
Dadaji..died early...dadiji died of Blood Cancer,...now two buaji also died of Cancer.
My father is a retired Doctor....was CMO of HFC, Barauni Hospital. He was ENT specialist...but finally turn to be...Phygician...He has not only raised five of us nicely, but helped buaji's sons in studies and job,...my 2 mamaji, their kids,..other uncles etc. He even helped distant relatives, friends...old,young..and doing d same till now!! Fondly known as Dr.Choudhary.
My mother is his nice counter part.Beautiful,Charming but strict, was a 10th pass...but no one can guess...very intelligent, respectful, was only daughter, both brothers were younger to him...Nanaji's family(both brothers used to live together), was well to do farmer's family...(Bhumihar Brahmin- zamindars)...lived in (Khojagachi)...Barbigha/munger/Bihar.Was a big joint family...now are scattered becoz of jobs outside, but still has that bonding.
Nanaji was in Airforce, left job due to family pressures...became teacher in school..fondly known as master saheb or netaji as he joined active Politics...very active during Jai Prakash Narain's youth movement...went to jail several times those days...in fact when he was underground...with few of his followers...we kids used to go to our relatives house in Barauni,where he was hiding, to give food and other necessary things to them.He surrendered becoz police raided our house!...quite a selfless person, worked alot...but never asked for any post, money, or ticket, passes, etc...though first CM Shri Sri Krishna babu or later on shri KapilDev Singhji and others asked him for....!!!
Naniji was sweet, simple and very quite lady...very affectionate, in her later age for many years she lived with us. we have learnt alot from them.
My mother inherited this leadership quality, and selfless seva bhav from them...learnt first aid, use of routine equipments from Papaji...Papa used to call her half doctor...the better way of saying better-half.
Though politicians were not welcomed at my residence but nanaji's most trusted kid was she...and papa!
Mummy(Usha/Bhavani)is a homemaker, a very good cook, quite active in social activities of ladies club,Sai baba Samiti...as usual..very impressed by Mother Teresa, wanted to join her but in vain...got honoured as 'Mother Teresa' of our area...at the time of papa's retd. farewell....!!
She is traditional, bit conservative, but Progressive as well...quite independent, brave but was and (still) with respect or lihaaj she couldn't used to say against my papaji or bhaiyyaji's will. A very good daughter, nice mother, nice sister, nice mother in law or nice grand parent or a citizen...I am really proud of her inspite of any flaw she has in her personality!!
My elder brother(Arun) is a civil engineer...from BITs MESHRA, Ranchi...working as a Chief Engineer in NHPC,...Faridabad....had postings in different states of country, including..Orissa,Mumbai,Arunachal Pradesh, Delhi(nehru place/Noida) etc...very honest,...hardworking...praiseworthy...was always good in studies and sports...was school captain...we all are proud of him inspite of his any flaws in personality.He never run away from his responsibilities of family and society...quite strict and bit rigid/conservative! Has house in Faridabad and Greater Noida.
Bhabhiji is a nice and pretty housewife a home maker and a very good cook, adorable,and much respected...never runaway from her responsibilities...
well educated...Msc in zoology, B.edu,Begusarai..G D College, a degree from allahabad in classical music(Correspondence)...very good in selai,bunai,kadhai...etc..Belong to a very good well to do educated family.
Her father is retd. Professor of English in Begusarai GD College and Mother is retd. Principal cum administator of School in Oil Refinary..Barauni...other siblings are well placed.
Their son Saurabh(bittoo-27yrs)...was through out topper in studies(above 90%), got admission in SRCC, BCom(honours),Delhi... suddenly lost interest in studies...got admitted in
(IGNOU)BCA Course...but its 2+ years, he started studying himself...completed his Bca ..joined Mca..and working as a trainee, as a web designer with some private company...getting praised by boss ...shows he'll pickup soon...in job or self employed talented webdesigners are really doing well!(Studied in Central School, and Apeejay, Noida)
Bunty(Vikram-25yrs)..nice natured aditi's cousin cum friend(they studied in same APeejay School)...very good in studies was head boy, now Computer(Software) Engineer..in INFOSYS, PUNE...Now is taken off from work and doing MBA for last one year from CHHENNAI!!
Abha didi...is no less then bhabhi...a housewife, a homemaker, good cook...Msc in HomeScience(Women's College, Ranchi)...certificate course in Computers...worked as a Computer trainer in BHEL for few months then left...
Her elder son Siddharth/lucky is good in studies and sports, specially in Lawn Tennis...did schooling from DPS, Haridwar(BHEL)..now in final yr Govornment Engineering college, Chandigarh.Got through for job as Traniee Electronics Engineer in Infosys,Mysore.Will join there in summer 2011(Has joined..quite active in co-curricular activities).
Her younger son Sankalp/vicky is like his bhai only, good in studies and sports...races, lawn tennis,..After xth from DPS,Haridwar..he joined Mordern School in BaraKhambha Road, Delhi...preparing for engineering entrance test as well..for this year...now in engineering college Pune.
Her Husband (Pramod Kumar)is a villager,farmer father's youngest son(of 4 brothers)...lived in Kasba called Sherpur,(Badh)...did schooling from Sainik School,Netherhath, Bihar...Did Engineering from MIT, Muzaffurpur, was good Lawn Tennis Player...was posted in BHEL, Ranipur Haridwar... forlast 26yrs, now since last two years, they are in Noida/Delhi, Posted as a AGM....is very active in Social work, was closly associated with Some Tal movement in Bihar, kissan movement of Mr Tikait,Mandal movement, Youth4equality,...started his project SAMANTA,which is closed down due to more work pressure in Noida now.Living in BHEL COLONY,SECTOR17,NOIDA.Has house in greater Noida, as well.
Younger Brother Alok bit shy amongst us, but good in mimicry...is a MBA from Muzaffurpur,...worked with Cipla(here Sudhirji helped him,initially) as marketing manager...and with one other company...took risk and left his job..started his own bussiness of Medical Equipments etc...after5yrs..left it...joined job as a GM in INDswift company in Chandigarh, was heading a department. Now he is with SURYA,in the same position.I praise him for his guts and ability to take risk...though he didn't had that much financial backing. A very good human being who adore Sudhirji.
His wife is no less then others...daughter of a retd District Magistrate of Begusarai(Parents live there)...she is Msc in zoology,and B.edu..before marriage was a teacher in DAV,Barauni...a home maker...has 2 very intelligent all rounder kids Golu/Anupam,runu/Aarushi...they are in 8th/7thstd, Ryan International,Chandhigarh.
Her younger brother Sanjay Kumar(42yrs)(has one more elder sister) is married to my youngest sister,he is Dy collector in Election Commission, Patna, Bihar, (did college from St.Stephens--Maths hons)...got posted in many corner of bihar...my sister-Nibha/Munni is perfect match for him(it was love cum arrange marriage...first was mine)... she is MA in Economics from Patna Women's college...wanted to be an IAS,cleared her Prelims in a first attempt...haven't got another chance,but got married(filled form for M.Phil in rural economics,after marriage but couldn't finish it due to transfers in small towns and small kids)....I know she has that 'dard' somewhere in her, which at times comes out...though now she says I am happy that I have not joined any job.was very good in studies...a good home maker, no less then any other females of our family.They are living in government accodamation but they have house in Patna and Begusarai.Now doing MBA from IGNOU.
In fact all of them are good and getting better day by day...has their shares of achievements,problems, struggle, tensions,crisis..Bemarian ...etc either, but...good in tackling..!! Munni's 2 kids son Sunny/Niloy and daughter nishu/Bhavya (8th/7th)students,are very intelligent and sanskari,Niloy has got scholorship for four yrs FREE coaching for IIT entrance and 60,ooo Rs cheque in national competition by FITZEE ... Only common thing in all is that all of them are honest..male members are very busy in their work in the office as well , specially Alok who is mostly touring.!!!
I love them and proud of them with all their qualities and flaws of personalities.
But Talking about Bihar as a Mayka or a State or reacting for it at times, doesn't make me less Rajasthani, less Delhiite, and less Indian.
Next is...Few lines about my SASURAL PAKSH..... !!
(I hope by writing about family members, and anyone's achievements shouldn't put people in any kind of trouble,or create any hurdle. if anyone get benifited, I don't need cerdit,if they don't want to give. I am not interested in 'dragging' anyone like 'draupadi' neither I did any such thing earlier also intentionally.
VAISE EK DUSSRE KA 'POL KHOL' TOOO SABHI JAGAH THODDA CHALTA HI RAHTA HAI'.
(And,I have written about my direct responsibilities,earlier also.)
My Parental Side-
My Dadaji was a villager, well to do farmer lived in Naugachia(Kathela)..Bhagalpur..Bihar.
He was nice, simple person,very religious(Bhagvatiji's devotee) but it was my dadiji who was dominating, short tempered but very affectionate and very good cook... and used to take care of everything...was very good in calculations.
My Papaji was only son and had four younger sisters. Dadaji died early...but by then my father had struggled alot, taught science in a school for two years so that that school get status of higher secondry school.
After he got through PMT and joined Patna Medical College, in vacations he used to do kheti-baari...got married(he was 24 and mummyji was 15+),...got all sis married...joined Sindri FCI...
Dadaji..died early...dadiji died of Blood Cancer,...now two buaji also died of Cancer.
My father is a retired Doctor....was CMO of HFC, Barauni Hospital. He was ENT specialist...but finally turn to be...Phygician...He has not only raised five of us nicely, but helped buaji's sons in studies and job,...my 2 mamaji, their kids,..other uncles etc. He even helped distant relatives, friends...old,young..and doing d same till now!! Fondly known as Dr.Choudhary.
My mother is his nice counter part.Beautiful,Charming but strict, was a 10th pass...but no one can guess...very intelligent, respectful, was only daughter, both brothers were younger to him...Nanaji's family(both brothers used to live together), was well to do farmer's family...(Bhumihar Brahmin- zamindars)...lived in (Khojagachi)...Barbigha/munger/Bihar.Was a big joint family...now are scattered becoz of jobs outside, but still has that bonding.
Nanaji was in Airforce, left job due to family pressures...became teacher in school..fondly known as master saheb or netaji as he joined active Politics...very active during Jai Prakash Narain's youth movement...went to jail several times those days...in fact when he was underground...with few of his followers...we kids used to go to our relatives house in Barauni,where he was hiding, to give food and other necessary things to them.He surrendered becoz police raided our house!...quite a selfless person, worked alot...but never asked for any post, money, or ticket, passes, etc...though first CM Shri Sri Krishna babu or later on shri KapilDev Singhji and others asked him for....!!!
Naniji was sweet, simple and very quite lady...very affectionate, in her later age for many years she lived with us. we have learnt alot from them.
My mother inherited this leadership quality, and selfless seva bhav from them...learnt first aid, use of routine equipments from Papaji...Papa used to call her half doctor...the better way of saying better-half.
Though politicians were not welcomed at my residence but nanaji's most trusted kid was she...and papa!
Mummy(Usha/Bhavani)is a homemaker, a very good cook, quite active in social activities of ladies club,Sai baba Samiti...as usual..very impressed by Mother Teresa, wanted to join her but in vain...got honoured as 'Mother Teresa' of our area...at the time of papa's retd. farewell....!!
She is traditional, bit conservative, but Progressive as well...quite independent, brave but was and (still) with respect or lihaaj she couldn't used to say against my papaji or bhaiyyaji's will. A very good daughter, nice mother, nice sister, nice mother in law or nice grand parent or a citizen...I am really proud of her inspite of any flaw she has in her personality!!
My elder brother(Arun) is a civil engineer...from BITs MESHRA, Ranchi...working as a Chief Engineer in NHPC,...Faridabad....had postings in different states of country, including..Orissa,Mumbai,Arunachal Pradesh, Delhi(nehru place/Noida) etc...very honest,...hardworking...praiseworthy...was always good in studies and sports...was school captain...we all are proud of him inspite of his any flaws in personality.He never run away from his responsibilities of family and society...quite strict and bit rigid/conservative! Has house in Faridabad and Greater Noida.
Bhabhiji is a nice and pretty housewife a home maker and a very good cook, adorable,and much respected...never runaway from her responsibilities...
well educated...Msc in zoology, B.edu,Begusarai..G D College, a degree from allahabad in classical music(Correspondence)...very good in selai,bunai,kadhai...etc..Belong to a very good well to do educated family.
Her father is retd. Professor of English in Begusarai GD College and Mother is retd. Principal cum administator of School in Oil Refinary..Barauni...other siblings are well placed.
Their son Saurabh(bittoo-27yrs)...was through out topper in studies(above 90%), got admission in SRCC, BCom(honours),Delhi... suddenly lost interest in studies...got admitted in
(IGNOU)BCA Course...but its 2+ years, he started studying himself...completed his Bca ..joined Mca..and working as a trainee, as a web designer with some private company...getting praised by boss ...shows he'll pickup soon...in job or self employed talented webdesigners are really doing well!(Studied in Central School, and Apeejay, Noida)
Bunty(Vikram-25yrs)..nice natured aditi's cousin cum friend(they studied in same APeejay School)...very good in studies was head boy, now Computer(Software) Engineer..in INFOSYS, PUNE...Now is taken off from work and doing MBA for last one year from CHHENNAI!!
Abha didi...is no less then bhabhi...a housewife, a homemaker, good cook...Msc in HomeScience(Women's College, Ranchi)...certificate course in Computers...worked as a Computer trainer in BHEL for few months then left...
Her elder son Siddharth/lucky is good in studies and sports, specially in Lawn Tennis...did schooling from DPS, Haridwar(BHEL)..now in final yr Govornment Engineering college, Chandigarh.Got through for job as Traniee Electronics Engineer in Infosys,Mysore.Will join there in summer 2011(Has joined..quite active in co-curricular activities).
Her younger son Sankalp/vicky is like his bhai only, good in studies and sports...races, lawn tennis,..After xth from DPS,Haridwar..he joined Mordern School in BaraKhambha Road, Delhi...preparing for engineering entrance test as well..for this year...now in engineering college Pune.
Her Husband (Pramod Kumar)is a villager,farmer father's youngest son(of 4 brothers)...lived in Kasba called Sherpur,(Badh)...did schooling from Sainik School,Netherhath, Bihar...Did Engineering from MIT, Muzaffurpur, was good Lawn Tennis Player...was posted in BHEL, Ranipur Haridwar... forlast 26yrs, now since last two years, they are in Noida/Delhi, Posted as a AGM....is very active in Social work, was closly associated with Some Tal movement in Bihar, kissan movement of Mr Tikait,Mandal movement, Youth4equality,...started his project SAMANTA,which is closed down due to more work pressure in Noida now.Living in BHEL COLONY,SECTOR17,NOIDA.Has house in greater Noida, as well.
Younger Brother Alok bit shy amongst us, but good in mimicry...is a MBA from Muzaffurpur,...worked with Cipla(here Sudhirji helped him,initially) as marketing manager...and with one other company...took risk and left his job..started his own bussiness of Medical Equipments etc...after5yrs..left it...joined job as a GM in INDswift company in Chandigarh, was heading a department. Now he is with SURYA,in the same position.I praise him for his guts and ability to take risk...though he didn't had that much financial backing. A very good human being who adore Sudhirji.
His wife is no less then others...daughter of a retd District Magistrate of Begusarai(Parents live there)...she is Msc in zoology,and B.edu..before marriage was a teacher in DAV,Barauni...a home maker...has 2 very intelligent all rounder kids Golu/Anupam,runu/Aarushi...they are in 8th/7thstd, Ryan International,Chandhigarh.
Her younger brother Sanjay Kumar(42yrs)(has one more elder sister) is married to my youngest sister,he is Dy collector in Election Commission, Patna, Bihar, (did college from St.Stephens--Maths hons)...got posted in many corner of bihar...my sister-Nibha/Munni is perfect match for him(it was love cum arrange marriage...first was mine)... she is MA in Economics from Patna Women's college...wanted to be an IAS,cleared her Prelims in a first attempt...haven't got another chance,but got married(filled form for M.Phil in rural economics,after marriage but couldn't finish it due to transfers in small towns and small kids)....I know she has that 'dard' somewhere in her, which at times comes out...though now she says I am happy that I have not joined any job.was very good in studies...a good home maker, no less then any other females of our family.They are living in government accodamation but they have house in Patna and Begusarai.Now doing MBA from IGNOU.
In fact all of them are good and getting better day by day...has their shares of achievements,problems, struggle, tensions,crisis..Bemarian ...etc either, but...good in tackling..!! Munni's 2 kids son Sunny/Niloy and daughter nishu/Bhavya (8th/7th)students,are very intelligent and sanskari,Niloy has got scholorship for four yrs FREE coaching for IIT entrance and 60,ooo Rs cheque in national competition by FITZEE ... Only common thing in all is that all of them are honest..male members are very busy in their work in the office as well , specially Alok who is mostly touring.!!!
I love them and proud of them with all their qualities and flaws of personalities.
But Talking about Bihar as a Mayka or a State or reacting for it at times, doesn't make me less Rajasthani, less Delhiite, and less Indian.
Next is...Few lines about my SASURAL PAKSH..... !!
(I hope by writing about family members, and anyone's achievements shouldn't put people in any kind of trouble,or create any hurdle. if anyone get benifited, I don't need cerdit,if they don't want to give. I am not interested in 'dragging' anyone like 'draupadi' neither I did any such thing earlier also intentionally.
VAISE EK DUSSRE KA 'POL KHOL' TOOO SABHI JAGAH THODDA CHALTA HI RAHTA HAI'.
(And,I have written about my direct responsibilities,earlier also.)
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