!!!...back from a conference discussing 60 years of India Nepal treaty and relationship....time to think the next 50 years rather than keep on cribbing about the past...and of course economic opportunities is what should be the starting point.....!!

SUJEEV SHAKYA OF NEPAL- A FRIEND IN MY FACEBOOK ACCOUNT.

EVEN I(ADITIFOUNDATION) HAVE STARTED A NEW ASSOCIATION WITH AN NGO FROM YESTERDAY-13/9/10, LETS SEE IF THIS NEW VENTURE TURN OUT TO BE AN 'ASSET' AND 'TO BE PROUD OF' 'WORKING WITH',OR A 'LIABILITY' FOR 'ME,...THAT NGO TEAM... AND MY PARIWAR/FAMILY...WHICH INCLUDES ALL'.)

AS I HAVE WRITTEN EARLIER ALSO IN SEVERAL POINTS THAT MY RELIGION IS 'HUMANITY' AND AS I BELIEVE,EVERY RELIGION AND CONSTITUTION MORE OR LESS TEACHES OR ADVOCATES FOR HUMANITY OR HUMAN FACE.THOUGH TO KEEP OUR BALANCE AND CHECK I HAVE WRITTEN EARLIER THAT ONE SHOULD NOT 'MISUSE' THESE LAWS AND CENTIMENTS.

FOR EXAMPLE, A SIKH GURU WAS RIDING A HORSE, A BEGGAR-DACOIT LIKED THAT HORSE AND REQUESTED HIM THAT HE IS VERY ILL, CAN'T WALK, CAN HE HELP...HE OBLIGED AND LET HIM RIDE ON HORSE AND AS HIMSELF HE STARTED WALKING,...LATER ON,SUDDENLY THAT BEGGAR-DACOIT RUNAWAY WITH THAT HORSE. FEW DAYS LATER,WHEN HE AGAIN MET THAT BEGGAR SOMEWHERE, HE JUST SAID,WHATEVER YOU DID WAS WRONG,BUT NEVER TELL THIS INCIDENT TO ANYONE, AS PEOPLE WILL STOP TRUSTING ANYONE AND EVEN GENUINE NEEDY BEGGARS OR ILL/SICK PEOPLE, THEY WILL SUFFER BECAUSE OF YOUR ONE ACTION.

IT IS 'QUITE SIMILIAR' WORK WHAT I HAVE DONE EARLIER WITH 'TV- PRINT,OR EVEN CONTRIBUTED IN OTHER SOCIAL ORGANIZATIONS AND NGO'S. EVEN ADITIFOUNDATION'S LAST SEMINAR AND HEALTH CHECKUP CAMP(ARTHRITIS) IN MAYUR VIHAR 2 WAS QUITE SUCCESSFUL,IN COMMON TERMS OF 'BHIIDD' THI.FEW PEOPLE THINK 'I AM BIT TEDHA' IN SPEAKING(THEDHA HAI PER MERA HAI),THAT'S WHY I DON'T FIT ANYWHERE EASILY, FEW THINKS I BECOME VERY 'SEEDHA' IN FRONT OF OUTSIDERS. LETS SEE, IF I FIT IN THERE,OUR TURN OUT TO BE A MISFIT, AS MY MISSION IS NOT TO BE IN COMPETITION WITH ANY FAMILY MEMBER ANY MORE OR TO BE IN ANY RACE. ITS TO DO SOMETHING MORE 'SOCIALLY RELEVENT THINGS WHICH HAS POSITIVE AND USEFUL IMPACT.'

EARLIER FEW THINGS I COULDN'T UNDERSTAND,SO AS EVEN OTHERS WERE MAYBE CONFUSED, SINCE 1995-2000/2000-2004/TO NEARLY 2010 IS GETTING OVER, NOW ITS TIME TO BEGIN FRESH....'JAISI BATEIN,BEHAVIOUR,ACTION HONGI,VAISI DHARNAYEIN BANEGI'...'WHETHER ITS AT HOME,IN AN OFFICE OR ANYWHERE OUTSIDE'...SO LETS SEE IF ITS SHAPEUP WELL,WHICH ALL CAN BE PROUD OF,AS ITS A PRISM!!! OR AGAIN I'LL LEAVE.BUT ONE POINT IS CLEAR-MY PARIWAR/FAMILY AND MY WORK BOTH ARE VERY IMPORTANT FOR ME AND I'LL LIKE TO BE COMFORTABLE IN BOTH PLACES.' GOOD WISHES TO ME,THAT MY WORKING IN/OUT SHOULDN'T TURNOUT TO BE 'A LIABILITY'FOR ALL.I OR ANYONE IN OUR FAMILY ...I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO BE CONSIDERED AS 'WRONG EXAMPLE OR UNWANTED OR 'A HOLLOWMAN' IN A FILMI TERM' BY ANYONE!!...NOW AS EVERYTHING IS TRANSPARENT,PEOPLE CAN SEE,HOW ALL THE WORK GET DONE. ITS TIME TO CLEAR ALL THE SCRATCHES ON US ALSO,IF ANY MORE LEFT.FOR THAT ONE NEED TO BE BEGIN FROM SCCRATCH,MOST PROBABLY,AND SAME GET TIME HIGHLIGHT BETTER CONTENT,WHETHER WORKING IN A DESK IN EQUIPPED WITH AC AND BROADBAND INTERNET CONNECTION AS WE DO HAVE IN OUR HOME OFFICE ,OR IN FIELD IN THE HEAT AND DUST,...PRESPIRING,OR RUNNING.

THESE PEOPLE ARE 'SPECIALLY WORKING ON 'HUMAN RIGHTS',I HAVE ALREADY WRITTEN ON THESE ISSUES IN THE NEWSPAPERS,FEW OF ITS CLIPPINGS ARE IN OUR'ADITIFOUNDATION' WEBSITE'S-DISCUSSION FORUM,AND IN ITS ARCHIEVE'. BUT EVERY OFFICE AND ITS FUNCTIONING ARE DIFFERENT SO, IT MAY TAKE FEW DAYS TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHERS EFFICIENCY.LETS SEE WHAT IMPACT I CAN LEAVE THERE,OR IN THEIR ASSOCIATION WHILE WORKING.SO AS IN AND IN SOCIETY, AS 'HUMAN RIGHT' IS FOR EVERY HUMAN BEING,WHATEVER PROFESSION THEY ARE IN, OR WHO EVER THEY ARE...ANY OF US CAN CORRECT OURSELF,WHENEVER WE REALIZE IT.)

IF A DAY STARTES IN RIGHT NOTE,DAY WILL DEFINITLY FINISH IN RIGHT TUNE.I NEED TO WORK ON IT TO BALANCE HOME AND OUTSIDE LIFE BOTH HAPPILIY AND EFFICIENTLY. WITHOUT GETTING DICTATED OR DICTATE ANYONE,OR COPYING ANYONE...DEMOCRATICLY.SELF IMPOSED DISCIPLINE IS ALWAYS BETTER AS IT WAS IN RABINDRANATH TAGOREJI'S 'GURUKUL' IN 'SHANTINIKETAN'. GANDHIJI WAS A STRICT DISCIPLINARIAN,STILL HE USED TO GIVE FREEDOM TO WORK ON THEIR OWN,TO PEOPLE.I AM INSPIRED BY THEM,BUT NEED TO EVOLVE LIKE SELF.

THOUGH I AM AN INDIAN,BUT STILL I WOULD LIKE TO TAKE OUR WORK TO RAJASTHAN(BIKANER) AND BIHAR(NEED MORE CONCENTRATION TO BE A ROLE MODEL STATE) AS WELL, AS OUR ROOTS ARE THERE WHENEVER IT IS POSSIBLE.MISSION KASHMIR CAN BE MISSION BIKANER OR MISSION BIHAR.OR A MISSION DELHI,AS WE BOTH ARE LIVING HERE SINCE 1982-83.

I AM SURE PEOPLE WILL COME TO KNOW MY WORTH FROM TODAY ONLY.IN THE OFFICE I WOULD LIKE TO TALK ABOUT WORK,AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, AND DO NOT WANT TO MIX UP OFFICE WORK AND HOME TIME,TILL ITS VERY URGENT,FOR EXAMPLE YESTERDAY INTERNET WAS NOT AVAILABLE, SO I GET THE PERPARATION DONE AT HOME,AS MATTER WAS ALREADY THERE IN MY WEBSITES ARCHIEVE. DEFINITLY FOR DATAS AND STATISTICS ONE NEED INTERNET OR RESEARCH METARIAL TO GET WORK DONE PROPERLY. THOUGH ALL MY FAMILY MEMBERS ARE MEMBERS OF THIS FOUNDATION.AND NO ONE IS 'BALI KA BAKRA' OR 'MTV BAKRA' HERE.

I WILL WRITE ABOUT MY FAMILY MEMBERS ACHIEVEMENTS,SPECIALL SUDHIRJI(WHO IS ALREADY REACHED TO THE PLATEAU AND NEED TO SUSTAIN THERE AND GROW...AS I THING HE HAS BEEN IGNORED A BIT,AND NOT FALL DOWN...WHERE AS ADITI NEED TO GROW, DEFINITLY IN THE BEGINING,IT WILL BE FASTER)(ITS CARTOONING AND PHOTOGRAPHY,THOUGH SUDHIRJI HAS DONE REPORTING/PHOTOGRAPHY ALSO ,WHENEVER ITS NEEDED,....SO A MINE, NOW ONWARDS!!...SO AS ON CURRENT ISSUES, I DON'T KNOW IF PEOPLE TAKE MY WORK SERIOUSLY, BUT I KNOW HOW CONTENTS EVOLVES,SO ITS MY RESPONSIBILTY, OFFICIALLY OR UNOFFICIALLY. THIS IS MY NEW STRATEGY AS "NOW EVEN SUTRADHAR-I MEAN ME WITH SUDHIRJI-AS HE MAKES CARTOONS ON CURRENT NEWS' IS IN THE FIELD 'COMPETITING' IN THESE MATCHES,AS PEOPLE TAKE IT AS....AND IT MAKES THIS 'GAME' MORE INTERESTING AS PEOPLE SAY!!....SURLY EVERYONE WILL UNDERSTAND IN FUTURE THAT ITS NOT 'HINDI VERSUS HINDI' OR 'MANASI(SHE WAS IN CONTRACT WITH A MUSIC COMPANY)- VERSUS NANDINI'...ITS ALL, LIKE IT CAN BE ACCOMODATED EVERYONE IN IT AS 'BIGBOSS TV PROGRAMME'HAS.NOW ITS UPTO US-PARIWAR AND OFFICE PEOPLE,OR WHOMEVER WE'LL WORK WITH OR MEET,OUR SOCIAL CIRCLE UNDERSTAND HOW TO BEHAVE AND PROVIDE CONTENT,AS THEY ALL ARE PART OF IT VIA ME -ITS UPTO THEM THEY MAKE SITUATIONS A PROUD TIME OR 'ASSET FOR PRESENT AND FUTURE' OR A 'LIABILITY' FOR THEM/EVERYONE. I LEFT FULL TIME WORK,WHEN I WAS JUST 35YRS OLD, BUT I DO FEEL,I HAVE THAT SAME ZEAL IN ME, REST..,TIME WILL TELL...ISS 'KAFILE MEIN SABKA SWAGAT HAI...KISSI KO HATTAYA NAHIN,SAB JUDHTEIN JAYEIN,BUT PERSONALLY MY PARIWAAR/FAMILY IS OF PRIME FOCUS FOR ME AS THEY DO REPRESENT DIFFERENT SHADES/STATES/PROFESSION/STRATA/AGE GROUP/GENDER...ETC AND THEIR OWN CIRCLE!! SAB AAPNE-AAPNE 'DAYRE MEIN KHUSH RAHNE CHAHIYE-YE TO EK COMMON PLATFORM HAI-ACHIEVEMENTS AND ISSUES/PROBLEMS/NEWS/COMMENTS/VIEWS SHARE KARNE KE LIYE).

AND YES! NO MORE WRITING IN ANY GIRL'S OR BOY'S GOSSIP BLOG,WHAT LITTLE BIT I HAVE WRITTEN.AS I WAS WRITING IN MY BLOGS ABOUT VARIOUS ISSUES AND NEWS AND MY VIEWS.

OR ON 'LGBT' OR ANY SUCH SENSITIVE ISSUES, UNLESS ITS NEEDED TO DO FOLLOW UPS OR UPDATE IT. OR CLEAR MY POINT OF VIEW WHICH I HAVE WRITTEN EARLIER)



I WILL WRITE ABOUT NECCESSARY POINTS ABOUT EVEN MY WORK SO THAT 'ITS NOT GET MIXED UP,OR MESSED UP, REST IS NOT IN MY HAND OR CONTROL.YOU CAN SEE MANY MORE NEW VERSIONS OF EVEN FICTION.

I AM SURE ONE DAY WHOEVER CRITICIZED ME WILL SAY,MUJHE USPER FAKHR HAI,MUJHE GARV HAI,I AM PROUD OF HER...VIA TV CHANNELS OR OTHERWISE.

AND FOR ALL OF OUR OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS INCLUDING ADITI.

AND NO WE DON'T WANT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE.WHICH WE DON'T DESERVE.(NO'EHASAAN' PLEASE!!!)

AS I FEEL NO ONE IS GHATIYA OR AACCHA, ANYONE CAN CORRECT THEMSELF WITH TIME AND SITUATIONS.