SUNDAY, APRIL 10, 2011 SOOCHNA KA ADHIKAR AUR GANDHIVAAD?? KAUN SA RASTA BEHTAR??YEH EK SAWAL HAI,SWAYAM SE PUCCHO??

Vibha Tailang
SUNDAY, APRIL 10, 2011

SOOCHNA KA ADHIKAR AUR GANDHIVAAD?? KAUN SA RASTA BEHTAR??YEH EK SAWAL HAI,SWAYAM SE PUCCHO??(VYAKTI KO SADAIV SATYA HII BOLNA CHAHIYE LEKIIN AGAR KISSI SATYA SE AURON KO FAYDA NAHIIN PAHUUNCH RAHA HO AUR KIISI KE JEEVAN-MARAN KA SAWAL HO YA NUKSAAN AADHIIK HO TOO CHUP REHNE MEIN THEEK HAI.VAISE LOGON KE JEEVANI SE KUCCH NA SUCCH SEEKHNE KO MILTA HAI,CHAHE ANUBHAV AUR GUNN BADHIYAA HO YA KHARAAB!!....MUJHE UMMEED HEI MEIRE LEKHAN SE JO BATEIN UJAGAAR HUIN HEIN USSKA FAYDA SABKO MILEGA!!KISSI AABRETION,REVELATION,DISCUSSIONS...SE HALKE-FULKE MUDDE BADDE BADDE MUDDON KO OVERSHADOW KER LEIN TOO WOH BATEIN NAHIIN KERNA CHAHIYE,LEKIIN MUJHE YAKEEN HAI ABB INN BATON KO ZYAADA MAHATVA NAHIIN DIYYA JAYEGA!!...

Soochnna ka aadhikar humein privacy ka adhikar deta hai

Neeji jeevan mein,sarvajanik jeevan mein,profession karyashetra mein!!!


Lekin Income tax department,vigilance department,guptcher agencian,

shaq ki aadhar per kissi per karwai ker sakti hai.


Abb badda sawal hai kya koi seema rekha ya lakshman rekha honi chahiyee???

Donno pahloon ko soochho,gaur karo,manthan karo aur batao,qua sahi hai kya galat??


kya aap paksh mein hein ya khilaaf mein??


stardust jaisi patrikayein niiji jivan mein

chatpati khabrien dhoondhtiin hein

inkki biikri bhi issi aadhar per addhikk hoti hai,


lekin kai baar jhooti ya adhhkachri ya addhpaki khabrein,

kucch poddhon ko vaqt se pahle murjha bhi detiin hein,


LEKIN INNN SANSKARON-SANSKRITI KI BATEEIN,

IN BADHTE BACHHON KO RASTE BHI DEEKHATI HAI


kahin aadhik farq nahin paddta,kahin per sakhtiyaan hotin hain,

kahin siir per gaaj girta hai,kahin honour killing hottin hein


To kya fhir kissi "sandharbh/context" ya "case" ke aadhaar per,

nirnaye hona chahiyee??


...varna khulasa karne wala bhi 'daag grast' ho,

"chakraveyhu" mein fhans sakta hai??

(yani read "whistleblower)


kahiin career per bhi farq paddhta hai!!!???



Meinne humesha yakeen dilane ki koshish ki,

bola,kaha,sunaya,fhir leekhna shuru kiya!!

AMERICA,ENGLAND,IRAQ,KANDHAR,PAKISTAAN,HINDUSTAN,AFGANISTAN,DUBAI,BANGLADESH,SRILANKA,MYAMAAR,NEPAL,BHUTAN,AUSRIA,AUSTRALIA..RUSSIA,CHINA,JAPAN,LIBYA,EGYPT,MIDDLE EAST...AAB SAAB SHAMIL SE LAGTE HAIN,TAB KISSI NE PURRE TARAH ISS BATT KO NAHIN MAANA!!

CRIME,CORRUPTION,SYSTEM,ADMINISTRATION,PRICE RISE,NATIONALISM,GLOBALISATION,NAXALISM,TERRORISM,UNDERWORLD,WAR,CEASRFIRE AND PEACE(...AND ITS PATTERN)...ETC(I HAVE MENTIONED IT ALL EARLIER)


...per jab pata chala mera likha bhi spread/faaill sakta hai...

tabb taq kucch vaqt nikal chukka tha,

per abb yeh mera hathyaar ya ek unofficial zariyya hai

aap sab tak pahunchne ka...abhi tak mein aapni batein likhh rahi thi,

aage bhi mera hi perspective hoga!!!

(emotional/professional aspect of life is also very important part of life,

which determines whole life and its progress in future.)

Gharr mein dhan idhar-udhaar kharch ho jaye,

ya invest karein tooo patta chalta hai!!


dafter mein Audit report inhouse magazines mein chappi hotin hein,

aander ki jaankari ho tooo koi bhi bhrastaar ke maamle per shaq ker sakta hai!!

Yani dhan khaan se aaye aur kaahan invest kiyee gai!!


...kahan paise saach aur jhooth mein divert kiyee gayee,!!



vaise he sarkari dhanon ka awantan MP's ko hotta hai,

wah bhi khaan kharch hua,nahin hua,kitna hua,kahan hua patta chal jata hai,

thodi mehnat aur jankaari ki zaroort hai.!!



2001 mein mein bihar gai thi,

panchayaat elections ho rahi thinn,

mahilaon ko 50% reservation ki ghoshna hui thi jooki baad mein lagoo hui

(bihar ne isski shuruat ki)


mein ne sarkaar ka audit report,sanjay ke ghar mein dekha...

election per kaam ho raha tha..march ka aantim maheena tha/April ka shuruati diin the!!


...bihar ko centre(NDA) paisee vikas ke liye nahin deti hai,

aissa Lalluji/Rabriji ka mannana tha!!


Lekin kaffi allocated rakam kharchh na hoo panne ki wajah se,

vappiss kendra ko bhejna padd raha tha...!!


kya yeh bhrastachaar aur nikkammepan ka ek saboot nahin???


.....Abhi mere ek schooli mitr ne ek vaqya likha hai,

ki kaise Bhagalpur mein, koi mahila mukhiya hain.

Vikaas ke liye jo bhi dhaan unke pass aattaa hai,

unnke aur DM ke beech saanth-gaaanth hai

...ek nishcheet rakam dono aapas mein Bander Baant karte hein,

phir eilaake ki vikkaass mein kharch hota hai!!!

.....Gaon mein Sabko pata hai,

per koi kissi nishkarsh tak nahin pahunchaana chahta,

ya shikaayat nahin karta hai.

Meinne wahan se vapis aaakar inn baton ki charcha ki thiii!!!

Tooo bhala mein purri tarah chuup kabb thii??

...chahe aap log manne, na manne ya hotthon per aanguli rakh ker,

chupp rahne kaa aadhesh denn???

...Tell me who is wrong?? Tell me what is wrong??...And how to correct it!!!


GANDHIVAAD "SAMPURN PARDHARSHITA" KE HIMAYYATEE HAI.

MAINN UNKI RAHON PER CHALNE KI PURREE KOSHISH KARTI HOON,

AHINSATMAK RAHON PER CHAL KER...AAJ KI STHITIYON MEIN JEENA CHAHTI HOON

AGAAR PEECHLE DO SAALON SE INNN 3 BLOGS,YA ANNYAT:

KUCCH BHI LEEKHA HAI WAH "SHAANTI/PEACE KA HIMAYAATI HAI

....MEINE SHAKHTI KI BATEIN KI HEIN TO MANVIYEETA/HUMANITARIAN ANGLE

KA KHAYAL RAKHA JAYEE AISSA BHI KAHA HAI.

LEKIN SACCHAI MEIN TODD-MARODD KI KOI HADD HONI CHAHIYYE,

AISSA MANTI HOON!!

CHAHE AAP KITNE BHI ANGLE SE USSE DHIKHAYEIN,

(MEDIA KE ANGLE SE BHI BAAT KAHI HAI YE AUR SAHITYA-SANSKRITI KE BHI)

KITNE BHI AASPECTS DHIKHAYEIN,GOSSIP HO YA,SPECULATIONS HO!!

...CHAHE FICTION YA FEATURE YA KHABREIN YA VIGYAAPAN HEIN,LANGUAGE,LITERATURE HAI.

PER FHIR ABHIVYAKTI KI SWATANTRATA BHI HAI,USSE CHHINNA GALAT HAI!!

(FOR EXAMPLE MOVIES LIKE BEAUTIFUL MIND,MY FRIENDS WEDDING,WEDDING PLANNER,INDEPENDENCE DAY,INDESCENT PROPOSAL,STRIPTEASE,NO MANS LAND/MOVIES OF EVERY CATEGORIES-HORROR,COMEDY,MUSICAL,WAR,LOVESTORIES,FAMILY DRAMA,EVEN DAILY SOAP-OPERA'S...SERIALS ----!!/A/B/C/GRADE...HOLLYWOOD,CHINESE,KOREAN,JAPANESE,RUSSIAN,BOLLYWOOD,KOOLIWOOD,TOLLYWOOD..ETC(ONE CAN FIND SIMILARITIES IN THEMES AND STORIES WHICH IS STRIKING)...ETC...MANY MOVIES.....WHICH CAN NOT BE COINCIDENCE,WHICH MEANS IT IS SOME KIND OF PHENOMENON)...THAT'S WHY PEOPLE WHO HAS "BHOOK" FOR ALL THIS THINKS I LOST "FOCUS"....TODAY'S TIME OR EVEN EARLIER....OTHERWISE I WAS ALWAYS FOCUSED AND NOT DISTRACTED.AS EVEN WHO ALL ARE TRYING TO "HANDLE ON AIR" MATTER AND ITS REFLECTIONS...AND RESULTED DISCUSSIONS WERE DISTRACTED.....NEITHER WAS/IS PART OF ANY WRONG DOING....ANYWHERE.


..GANDHIJI KE VAQT DESHWASI AANGREZON KI KHILAAF LADD RAHE THE.

AAZADI KI LADAI AUR DESHBHAKTI KI LAHER SE SAB BHIGE THE,

OTT-PROTT THE,SEEDHE,SACCHE,BHOLE,PICCHDE,GAREEB LOG THE.

(HE DIED IN 1948)

USS VAQT AAZAAD DESH KA SAMVIDHAAN NAHIN THA,

NA HII DESSKE 3 TUKDDE HUE THE!!

LEKIN AAJ BHI HUM AAPNE AANDER KI KAMIYON,BURAIYON,KURITIYON,

SAMAJ MEIN FAILLIN KHARABIYON KO DUUR KARNE KE LIYEE


DOOSRI AAZAADI KI LADAI ROZ LADD RAHE HEIN.

ANNAJI KE SAATH ISS LADAI MEIN AUR TEZI AA GAYEE HAI.


CORRUPTION KI KHILAAF GUSSA SADAKON PER UTTAR AAYA HAI.

UMEED HAI ELECTION MEIN BHI ISSKA ASSAR DHEEKHEGA!!


AZZADI SE PAHLE AAJ KI TARAH, NA TO PRESS ITNA PRABHAVSHALI THA,

NA USSKI ITNI PAHUNCH THI,NA HII LOG ITTNE PADDHE-LIKHHE,JAGROOK THE.


PHIR BHI FACELESS BHEED KI MANNSIKTA

(AAM JANTA JABB EKATRIT HO JAYYE TOOO BHEED HO JATII HAI,

SUNNKER AACHHA AUR SAMMANIT NAHIN LAGTA PER YEHI SATYA HAI)

JISSKE HUM SAB KABHI NA KABHI HISSA BANN JATTE HEIN,


AAJ BHI WAHI HAI,JO SADDA THI AUR BHAVISHYA MEIN HOOGGI!!


...USSE SAMAJHTE HUE,BINNA DOSH DIYEE AAGE BADHNA ZAROORI HAI???


...SATYA KI AVADHARNA BATON SE BHI BANTTI HAI,

KARYON SE BHI BANTTI HAI,USSKE RESULT SE BHI BANTTI HAI.


SAMPURN SATYA KO SADHANA KATHIN KAAM HAI,

MEIN USS RAH KI RAHI HOON

...DUGMAGGAOUN TOO YAAD DILANA.


RAJA HARISHCHANDRAJI,YUDHISTRA,GANDHIJI,

RAJA RAMCHANDRAJI...ISS RAH KE RAHI THE

....ISSE JEEVAN MEIN SADHNA AUR LAGOO KARNA MUSHKIL HAI,

PER AASAMBHAV NAHIN,UNKA SABKA JEEVAN ISSKA MEESHAL HAI!!

AGAAR WOH AAJ HOTE TO BHI BHRAST YA JHOOTHE NAHIN HOTE,

ISSKA MUJHE YAKEEN HAI

....GANDHIJI KE VICHAAR,KARM,SANYAM,NIYAM,JEEVAN

...RAMRAJYA KI AAKANKSHA

(YAHAN UNKII RAMRAJYA KI KYA AVADHARNA THII YEH SAMAJHNA HOGA)

SABB KATHIN HAI LEKIN ANUKARNIYEE HAI!!!


ISS LIYE WEH HUMARE RASTRAPEETA HEIN AUR AADAARNIYEE HEIN!!

ABB BHI HUM UN SABKE RAHON KO DEKHTE HUE AAPNI RAH BANNA SAKTE HEIN!!


QUONKI,JABB JAGO TABHI SAVERA,AUR DERR SE AAYE PURR DURUST AAYE!!


BHAI MEIN TOO SWAYAM SE HI APNI BEHTERI KE LIYEE COMPETITION KARTI HOON,

AISSA HUMESHA HI KAHTI AUR LEEKHTI AAAYEE HOON.

LEKIN JO RAH CHUNNA HAI WAH AURON KI BHI,

BEHTARI KARTE HUE AAGE BADHNE KE LIYE HAI!!

LEKIN SAMBHAVTH ISS LEKHAN KARYON ME JUTTNE SE "SWAYAM KE ADITI FOUNDATION" KA KARYA KAHIN KUCHH PEECHE CHOOT GAYYA HAI.VAISE AWAAZ.ADITIFOUNDATION.CO.IN" MEIN LEKHAN KARYA KARTI RAHTI HOON.

Awaaz.aditifoundation.co.in,a webmagazine....is an an intiative to write about socio-economic-political-via cultural devolopmental issues....which comes broadly under "human rights-which means 3P's-Physical,Professional, Pschological devolopment!!....have 3-blogs-v tailang.blogspot.com/chinuaditi.blogspot.com/vibhatailang.blogspot.com and a website aditifoundation.co.in(its official work).....which basically my perspective...."Swayam Puran"???...with views and news....and comments...and cut and pastes.....my creativity which started blossoming up now...all kind of "Issues"...which I am meant to deal in my ADITIFOUNDATION....A TRUST....is writing in these spaces created by me!!! So I don't think i am less competetive and actually left behind ...as somehow I feel by writing about all "issues"---which is also incorporated in fictions,ads,movies,news,views,features and discussions of print/tv/radio/internet/advertisments in someway....other then road discussions...and maybe "Indirectly"...but "EFFECTIVLY-I AM CONTRIBUTING IN "RISING INDIA"....AS I BELIEVE THESE "PARIVARTAN" IS HAPPENING IN RIGHT DIRECTION...STEP BY STEP.AS A PROOF,ONE CAN CHECK THE NEWS WITH DATES....MY VIEWS/COMMENTS ON IT,DISCUSSION/CARTOONS AND DECISIONS MADE ON IT. I BAILED OUT FEW WITH ALLEGED CHARGES WHICH WERE "REFLECTIONS OF ISSUES ON AIR"...BUT GOT MIXED UP IN LIFE- LIKE WATER!!

...FOR EXAMPLE....TO BEGIN WITH--"SHANTI'S LIFE,HER MAZDOOR MOTHER TULSI'S RAPE BY KAMESH MAHADEVAN WHO FINALLY MARRIED HER(...FACEOFF) ETC....WHICH EVOLVED WITH TIME AND SCRIPT,AND STARTED EFFECTING OUR LIFESTYLE,THINKING,BEHAVIOUR....WHICH I AM TRYING TO RESTORE/RECONSTRUCT AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE,BUT CAN'T SAY ABOUT MENTAL AGONY WE WENT THROUGH INITIALLY....ATLEAST I WAS NOT READY TO EXCEPT EVERYTHING AS IT IS....AS I KNEW,IT CAN BE CLEARED OFF!!!

...I CAN MAKE THOSE PEOPLE UNDERSTAND WHO ARE TRYING TO MAKE ME UNDERSTAND FOR "SHORT TERM" BETTERMENT. BUT NOW I CAN SEE "LONG TERM" BETTERMENT. AS EVERYONE KNOW THE WAY STORIES EVOLVES,ITS BETTER TO KEEP ON DOING YOUR WORK,THINGS WILL FALL IN THE RIGHT PLACE...."JITHNA KABBADA ITTNE DINON KA EEKATTHA THA,NIKAAL GAYA"...IF PEOPLE SAY SO,....OTHERWISE ALL THE PROBLEMS EXISTS IN FAMILIES,SOCIETY AND IN OUR MIND....AND CONSTANTLY IT NEEDED CORRECTION,BY LISTENING TO IT,WRITING ABOUT IT,CREATING RIGHT AND PROPER AWARENESS,MAKING RESOLUTIONS,MAKING EFFECTIVE LAWS...AND WORKING ON IMPLEMENTATIONS.

I HAVE NEVER BLOCKED ANY VOICES WHO WISH TO SHARE THEIR VIEWS WITH ME AS I HAVE 2 FACEBOOK ACCOUNTS ALSO. BUT IN SOMEWAY "I CLEARED MY VIEWS,CREATED MY SPACE AND PERSONALITY....CLEARED THE POLLUTION "ON AIR"...PEOPLE UNDERSTAND HOW ISSUES AND VIEWS GETS MIXED UP AND CREATE "CHAKRAHVIUH", WHICH HAS EFFECTED EVERYONE'S MIND.....AND EVERYONE'S ATTITUDE OF "LIVING IN IT AND LIKING IT"!!!

..."YEH SAB TOOO CHALTA HE RAHEGA, KUCHH TOOO LOG KAHEINGE,LOGO KA KAAM HEI KAHNA,INSAAN SE BHAAGE PHIRTE HO,BHAGWAN KO KYA TUM PAOGE,GAAY HUMARI MAATA HAI, JEETE HEIN SHAAN SE,MARTE HEIN SHAAN SE...AA DEKHEIN ZARA,KISSMEIN KITNA HEI DUM??...ETC",.....IT WAS NOT ACCEPTABLE TO ME!!

THOUGH I DON'T THINK I FEEL BAD SO EASILY OR GET ANGERY ALL THE TIME BUT 15YRS ARE LONG TIME....I AM TAKING ACTIONS WHATEVER I CAN SINCE BEGINING!! BUT NOW BY WRITING ITS " ON FILES- ON RECORD NOW"!!

....SO I TOOK FEW STEPS,WAS DETERMINED TO CHANGE THE SCENARIO...GOD IS ALWAYS WITH ME I KNOW,SO AS MY NEAR ONE'S...!!IF YOU LOOK BACK,AND TRY TO REMEMBER,THESE ALL TALKS WERE THERE BEFORE ALSO WHICH NEEDED TO BE "CORRECTED" IN A SENSE THAT IT DON'T DO INJUSTICE TO ANYONE!!

IF ANYONE IS WRONG MUST GET PUNISHED,INCLUDING US...(WHICH WE GOT ENOUGH OF OUR SHARE).

BUT IT HAD POSITIVE SIDE ALSO,WHICH EVERYONE WERE ENJOYING,SO MUCH THAT THEY DON'T MIND "ROTTENNESS" ALSO.INSTEAD FEW PEOPLE HAD PROBLEM,WHY THIS "OVERHAULING IS"...WE DON'T NEED IT....PER "BINA KHEENCHE",SABKA DHYAAN BHI TOO NAHI GAYA"....!!

WELL, HERE MEDIA'S ROLE IS APPRECIABLE....ONLY BALANCE IS NEEDED!!!WHICH THEY HAVE SHOWN NOW...IN BIHAR ELECTIONS,DURING WORLD CUP ETC.

.....INFACT MEDIA NEED TO "FOLLOW RIGHT TO INFORMATION" STRICTLY,BUT IN REAL AND PERSONAL LIFE....I AM FOLLOWER OF "SPEAKING THE TRUTH"...AND ATLEAST IS 99% SUCCESSFUL IN DOING SO BY NOW!!!

...BY NOW,SO DON'T BOTHER ABOUT MY CREDIBILITIES!!

...BUT YES,AFTER FEW POINTS GOT CLEAR WITH AUTHENTICITY,TO ME AND OTHERS.....SO I CAN SPEAK MORE FORCEFULLY AND EFFECTIVLY,THOUGH "LIHAAJ" IS ALWAYS THERE.MAYBE IN PROCESS FEW MORE POINTS GET CLEARED.

NOW I EXPECT PEOPLE NOT TO "ASK ME TO ACCEPT",WHAT I MENTIONED MYSELF EARLIER IN WHICHEVER 'CONTEXT' OR SCENARIO.

NEITHER I EXPECT ANY FAMILY MEMBER TO BREAK THEIR PERSONAL LIFE IN SOME MISUNDERSTANDING,SOME SACRIFICE BY TAKING BLAME ON SELF,SOME CONFLICT WHICH CAN BE SOLVED OR ARE UNNECCESSARY........OR MAYBE IF ITS SUITS TO STORIES!!

....AS STORIES EVOVLES TO CREATE POSITIVITY(ATLEAST NOW ONWARDS,I BELIEVE...ALL BIG DISPUTES WERE SOME HOW CREATED ARTIFICIALLY....SO MY WISHES IS TO BE PART OF "RISING INDIA",WITHOUT SABOTAGING ANYONE'S IMAGE,LIFE, CAREER,PERSONALITY!!!

....LET SELF AND OTHERS GROW AND EVOLVE!!!

I AM A FAMILY PERSON.I LOVE MY FAMILY.I DO BELIEVE IN GROWING UPWARDLY AS A FAMILY,,,,AS COMPLETE UNIT(OTHERWISE I WOULDN'T HAVE MENTIONED RAJSHREE'S MOVIES..TO YOUNG FRIENDS OF ADITI)

....BUT DEFINITLY,I DON'T BELIEVE IN PROMOTING CASTESISM BY HIGHLIGHTING 'SIRNAMES' OR 'CASTE',BUT TO FIT IN STORIES/SCRIPT,WHICH DO NOT POTRAY 100%,WHAT WE ARE,BUT AS ITS A COMMERCIAL MEDIUM,NEEDS ALL THE INGREDIENTS.....ISSUES,SHADES....CASTE(BRAHMIN/RAJPUT/DALIT..)/SIRNAMES HAS BECAME MATTER OF 'IDENTITY' IN A WAY!!

....PLEASE DON'T MAKE IT A 'TABBOO'!!

....SO AS 'NEPOTISM'....I DON'T BELIEVE 'BHAI-BHATIJAWAD',OR 'PARIVAARWAD'....BUT IN A FAMILY....IN TODAY'S TIME ONE NEED TO GROW AS A FAMILY-AS A UNIT"!!,.....BUT AS VERY FRIVILOUS KIND OF CONTROVERSIES GET CREATED.....SO I THINK NOTHING WRONG IN TALKING ABOUT FAMILY AND OFFICES...FRIENDS AND OUTSIDE WORLD....AS NOW YOU'LL UNDERSTAND,HOW ITS HAPPENNING AND EVEN BLAMMES SHIFTING....FOR EXAMPLE MR NOT MRS TENDULKAR STARTED IN SAAB TV,HUSBAND LIVES AT HOME,,WIFE WOKS IN OFFICE,,,HAD SHOWN WIFE VIBHA GOING TO THE OFFICE FIRST TIME....IT WAS WHEN I WENT TO LAKSHMINAGAR OFFICE....THEY WERE WORKING ON ACCOMODATION...BUT AS I AM NOT GOING THERE REGULARLY,FOCUS-BLAME WILL GO ON ANOTHER VIBHA WHO IS GOING TO OFFICE CONSISTENTLY SINCE 1989.

BUT ITS EPISODES STILL REFLECTS OUR DAY TO DAY TALK OR WHAT I WRITE HERE,OR LISTENING ON TV(I AM SAYING THIS,WITHOUT ANY QUESTION MARK ON SELF---OR IF AND MAYBE!!

....BUT ITS INTERPRETATION OR PRESENTATION IS THE WAY THEY WANT!!

....ITS "CRUX" OF ALL...BUT SOME HOW I FEEL,THEY BELIEVES ME!!!

I REMEMBER ONCE I COVERED A SERIALS PREMIERE AND WROTE REVIEW,WITH THE HEADLINES..."JABB SARA GAON HI INVOLVE HO GAYYA"!!

.....SO THEIR IS NOTHING WRONG IN PROMOTING SELF/FAMILY IN SUCH SITUATIONS....AS WE ALL ARE HONEST,UPRIGHT PEOPLE,SELF RESPECTING,PROUD INDIANS.

I HAVE MENTIONED OUR FAMILY TREE IN BLOGS,SO THAT NO ONE NEED TO PUT BLAMES ON ANYONE OR MIX MASALA DELIBRATELY!!!

....I WISH PROGRAMME MAKERS --THEY WAY INCORPORATING ALL THE ANGLES OF STORYLINES,AND ACCORDING TO IT CREATING CHARACTERS....WILL DO IT IN FUTURE ALSO!!!...AS NOW EVEN THEY KNOW HOW THINGS ARE HAPPENNING....AS I KNOW THEY BELIEVED OTHERS WORDS ALSO BLINDLY....OR MAYBE THEY'LL GET "MASALA'S",AS EVERYTHING EXISTS IN SOCIETY!!!

....BUT IT ALSO CREATES TREND,SO NOW ITS UPTO THEM,WHAT KIND OF SOCIETY THEY WANT TO CREATE.....AND NOW THEY HAVE CHANCE TO SET AN EXAMPLE IN FRONT OF WORLD....BHARAT/DESH KA SWARNIM GAURAV KYA WAPIS AAYEGA??"

"I REMEMBER MY OLD OFFICE USED TO SHOW A SERIAL "YUG"(I LEFT IT BY THEN,SO IT WAS NOT MY CREATION....BUT WAS BEGAN WITH FREEDOM FIGHTING DAYS),BUT I LIKED ITS TITLE SONG---"BAAT DESH KI KARTA THA JO,AAPNE DESH PER MARTA THAT JO,AANE LIYYE HI JINNE LAGA KYON,YUG BADLA,BADLA HINDUSTAAN"

....SO WHO MADE THIS, AND ALL OTHERS...MUST DO AATMMANTHAN...THAT IS REALLY WE ALL HAVE BECOME TOOO SELF-CENTRED??

...WE ALL CAN TAKE DECISIONS,WHENEVER WE DO SO ....KEEPING IN MIND,IF ITS GOOD FOR SOCIETY,HUMANITY,COUNTRY,ENVIRONMENT AS WELL,...JUST THE WAY WE THINK-" IS IT GOOD FOR ME OR THAT PERSON OR FAMILY???..ETC)

....I DO NOT HAVE ANNIMOSITY WITH ANYONE BUT SOME HOW COMPETATIVENESS WILL ALWAYS EXISTS,SO AS TRYING TO TURN WAVES IN ONE OWN SIDE....!!! HERE I CAN TAKE GAURENTEE OF SELF ONLY.BUT CAN SUGGEST EVERYONE CAN RELATE WITH IT IF THEY FEEL ITS SUITS TO THEM.BUT ONE THING IS CLEAR...AS I TRY 100% NOT TO HIDE ANYTHING,AS I CANNOT,EXCEPT WHAT IS IN MY MIND OR HEART,SO NO ONE EVER EXPECT ME TO DO "CHARANGIRI"!!!

...I CAN TRY TO DO ONE THING POSSIBLY IS...WILL TRY TO SHOW POSITIVE SIDES MORE,SO THAT NEGATIVITY DON'T GET HYPED,BUT WHEREEVER NECEESSARY...I CAN NOT IGNORED THAT ALSO!!

SO IAM SURE NOW ONWARDS "THESE UNNECESSARY 'DAAG','KALANK'...ETC BECAME HURDLE IN LIFE AND MINDSET OF ANYONE OR PERSON IN ONE'S FRONT SHOULD RESOLVE NOW.

OUR FAMILY IS BETTER IN FOLLOWING CONTEMPORARY INDIAN VALUES BY NOW....WITH OLD/YOUNG/MALE/FEMALE/RICH/NOT SO RICH/BELONGS TO DIFFERENT STATES/LANGUAGE/CULTURE!!

...VARIETY OF SHADES DO EXISTS BUT WE ALL ARE SYMBOL OF "RISING INDIA"...MIX OF INDIAN TRADITIONS AND LITTLE BIT OF MORDERNITY...WE ALL KNOW OUR LIMIT....HAS UNITY IN DIVERSITY.NOW I AM TALKING ABOUT WE 5..MA/BABUJI/SUDHIRJI/CHINU/ME...AND EXTENDED FAMILIES OF BOTH SIDES. IF WE HAVE ANY FLAWS FOR WHATEVER REASONS,WILL TRY HARD TO OVERCOME IT FOR BETTERMENT,I CAN PROMISE THAT.....PLZ DON'T TAKE OUR 'HAASI-MAZAAK/HYPERBOLE'S' TOO SERIOUSLY...!!!HERE TRADITION AND MODERNITY NEED TO BE UNDERSTAND PROPERLY AND CORRECTLY....WITH LOGIC AS WELL!!!

WELL I TRIED AND FACED IT,GOT MISUNDERSTOOD ALSO IN THE PROCESS,...CREATED PLATFORM FOR SELF WITHOUT WAITING FOR ANY RIGHT TIME,OR TO WAIT FOR WIND TO BLOW ACCORDING TO MY WISHES(WHICH WAS BUT I HAD TAKEN ROUTE TO OVERHAUL EVERYTHING...WHICH WAS HAPPENING AND WAS NOT 100% PLANNED!!!

....BUT I CAN SEE 8/10 OF MY PREDICTIONS CAME TRUE!!!

AND SO THINGS WERE IN MY FAVOUR OR NOT I WROTE,WITHOUT TRYING TO RIDE ANY KIND OF WAVES OR TIDES....(WITH SUDHIRJI'S SUPPORT....HEY RAM,HUM THIK HII KAR RAHEIN HEIN...AISSA MUJKO HAI YAKIIN.....YAKKIN HAI RASTE BANNTEIN JAYEINGE)

....AFTER THIS CORRUPTION BILL WILL BE CLEARED,I AM SURE ....STEP BY STEP.... BUT IN THIS PROCESS,IF MY WORDS,BEHAVIOUR ANY ACTION HURT ANYONE..INTENTIONALLY/UNINTENTIONALLY....WELL I AM APOLOGETICAL FOR THAT(BEING IN SOME CHARACTER SOME TIME) BUT OTHERS ALSO MUST DO THE INTROSPECTION...WHAT THEIR REACTIONS/ACTIONS WERE!!

...WHAT THEY WANTED TO CONTROL...TO TRYING TO RIDE WAVES OR TIDES...TO KEEP EVERYTHING IN MUTTHI OR CONTROL(WELL THAT'S TEMPTING...BUT DO IT WITH OUT GETTING HURT IF POSSIBLE---ITS MY ADVICE)!!

....BY PRODUCTS OF IT AND IN PROCESS...SOME POLLUTION MAY HAVE EFFECTED THEM(THOUGH I TRIED TO SAVE THEM AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE IN THE PROCESS....AND TAKE ITS EFFECT ON SELF...BECOMING "MANGALOMANIAC-AS SOME SAID,...RUINING SELF-IMAGE BY DOING MIMICRIES OR SHOWING LITTLE BIT OF GREED...WHICH I DON'T THINK I AM AT ALL MATERIALISTIC,NEITHER SUDHIRJI OR CHINU ARE!!"....THEY ARE FIT CANDIDATES TO BE "EVEN ROLE MODEL'S" FOR THEIR FRIENDS/PEERS AROUND THEM!!! I WON'T COMMENT ON SELF,BUT I AM A SELF RESPECTING PERSON,LET HOW OTHERS JUDGE ME!!!...BUT I KNOW,PEOPLE DO LIKE ME!!....)

AND PLEASE DON'T MIXUP WORD "RISING INDIA",WITH ANY MOVIES CHARACTERS AND DIALOUGES!!

WE ARE LOOKING TOWARDS EAST/TOWARDS OUR OWN ACHIEVEMENTS SINCE AGES TO INCULCATE IT AND GROW UPWARDLY....IF YOU KNOW ABOUT IT WILL UNDERSTAND,INTIALLY WE WERE AS MORDERN AS TODAY--IN FASHION,LIFESTYLE,CULTURE,FOOD,HOUSE ARCHTECTURE,DESIGNING ETC....BUT WE NEED TO MOVE ON WITH TODAYS TIME....TAKING ALONG WHAT WAS GOOD THEN AND WEEDING WHAT WAS NOT!!!

MORAL VALUES AND ETHICS ARE ALWAYS IMPORTANT SO AS INTEREST AND PASSION IN WORK.

I HAVE PRIVILEDGE TO WORK WITH VERY EXPERIENCED AND GOOD PEOPLE OF JOURNALISM INCLUDING SUDHIRJI.I HAVE DONE PROFESSIONAL ON THE JOB TRAINING AND HAVE WORKING EXPERIENCES IN SOCIAL SERVICE SINCE CHILDHOOD!!!

....WHETHER I HAVE HIGHER DEGREES IN IT OR NOT....!!!

TO BE CONTD.....!!
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SO BELIEVE IN 100% EFFORT IN ANY ACTION AND PLANNING....AND LEAVE RESULTS TO GOD....INSTEAD OF 99%....DUVIDHA@BHRANTIYAAN HONE SE BHI CHOOK HOTII HEIN.