Indian women-good wishes to them

Indian women....good wishes for women's reservation bill to be passed in Rajya sabha today...8/3/2010.

CONGRATULATIONS AND GOOD WISHES....WOMEN's BILL PASSED IN A RAJYA SABHA, AS AFTER ISSUING WHIP THEY HAD THE SURPLUS NUMBER....I AM SURE IT WILL PASS IN LOK SABHA AS WELL, AS EVEN TODAY's TIME WOMEN DO NEED A PUSH, AS 'MEDIAVAL MENTALITY or ZAMEENDAAR MEMTAILITY' STILL EXISTS...SO AS OTHER FACTORS LIKE, AS ECONOMICAL INDEPENDENCE AND ALL ROUND GROWTH FOR A SOCIAL CHANGE IN A FASTER PACE... WOMEN DO NEED EQUAL OPPORTUNITIES AND FAMILY SUPPORT....WOMEN's BILL IS A STEP TOWARDS OPENING THE DOOR FOR THEM...AAGE-AAGE DEKTEIN HAIN HOTA HAI KYA???(9/3/10)

13/3/10...LOTS OF DISCUSSIONS GOING ON, ON THIS BILL, I COLLECTED AND CUT N PASTE FEW ARTICLES HERE WHICH WERE WRITTEN IN THESE LAST FEW YEARS....EVEN I USED TO SPEAK ON THESE MATTER...NOW I STILL FEEL WOMEN NEED FAMILY AND SOCIAL SUPPORT TO BE IN POLITICS, BESIDES FINANCIAL(PEOPLE NEED MONEY TO FIGHT ELECTIONs) AND OTHER PROBLEMS WHICH ARE FACTORS,WHICH PROHIBIT WOMAN TO COME FORWARD AND BE IN ACTIVE POLITICS...!!

USE OF BLACK MONEY,CORRUPTION,MALPRACTICES,CRIMILIZATION OF POLITICS, ETC....AND OUR SOCIAL MINDSET, WHICH STILL GIVES WOMEN A BACKSEAT, SOFTER WORK....EVEN IN POLITICS...AND DEFINITLY WOMEN LEADERS IN BIGGER NUMBERS STILL NEED TO PROVE IN EVERY LEVEL THAT THEY ARE NO LESS THAN MEN IN ANY DIMENSION, IN FACT BETTER IN RIGHTEOUSNESS, QUALITY,ABILITY,QUALIFICATION,KNOWLEDGE,DYNAMISM,DETERMINATION,HONESTY,TRANSPERENCY,....IF THEY WANT TO...ETC. IN FACT IT WILL BE BETTER IF WE DO NOT COMPETE WITH THEM BUT WITH THEIR AND EVERYONE'S CO-OPERATION CAN IMPROVE AND DO BETTER IN EVERY SPECTRUM OF LIFE.

ABOUT RESERVATION, I FEEL ITS EXPIRY DATE NEVER APPLIES....POLITICIANS DO -VOTE POLITICS IN THIS MATTER WHICH IS NOT CORRECT...WHAT WE NEED TO DO IS VOLUNTARILY COME OUT AND SAY NOW WE DO NOT NEED RESERVATION AS MANY OF OUR GENERATION ARE WELL EDUCATED AND EARNING WELL, CAN HELP OTHERS TO COME OUT OF THESE PROBLEMS, DON'T PUT US IN CREAMY LAYERS AND GIVE RESERVATION TO MORE NEEDY....BUT IT NEVER HAPPENS...PEOPLE IN RESERVATION QUOTA's NEVER EVOLVES AND THUS DEMAND OF QUOTA INSIDE QUOTA ARISES....!!!

DEFINITLY WOMEN HAS DOUBLE ROLE IN SOCIETY AS A HOME MAKER, A MOTHER, AND A TORCH BEARER...BUT IF RESPONSIBILITIES ARE SHARED AT HOME WITHOUT MAKING IT A PRESTIGE POINT OR EGO POINT, WOMEN ARE READY TO TAKE UP ALL RESPONSIBILITIES AND PRIORITIES HONESTLY, EVEN MIDDLE CLASS OR LOWER CLASS WOMEN,WHO USUALLY, CAN NOT AFFORD DOMESTIC HELP...OR FULL TIME HELP, OR CAN SEND OR WANT TO SEND SMALL KIDS TO THE HOSTELS. ONE NEED TO CONVINCE OTHER MEMBERS AND CREATE CONDUCIVE ATMOSPHERE AT HOME,WHETHER THEY ARE LIVING IN A JOINT FAMILY OR A NUCLEAR FAMILY TO BE IN POLITICS...AS IT IS A PUBLIC WORK AND ONCE PERSONAL LIFE ALSO MAKE HIS/HER RIGHT AND WRONG IMPRESSION OR ONE CAN SAY...PUBLIC IMAGE as they are supposed to be ROLE MODEL for others and they need votes from PUBLIC as well, but can't say these factors are considered by voters anymore or not...earlier CHAAL,CHARITRA OR CHEHRA WAS A SLOGAN OF A PARTY IN OUR COUNTRY!!

AS STATISTIC SAYS WOMEN IN A STATES LIKE KERALA AND NORTH EAST, WHERE LITERACY RATE IN TOTALITY IS HIGHER BUT STILL NUMBER OF WOMEN IN POLITICS ARE REALLY LESSER THAN BIHAR,MP,UP...!! THUS DEMAND FOR RESERVATION IS NOT A WRONG AND NEED TO BE CONSIDERED AND FULFILLED AS WE DO NEED WOMEN TO BE ON DECISION MAKING SEATS.....BUT THEN CHANGE IN MINDSET OF MEN AND WOMEN IS NECCESSARY FOR ANY SOCIAL CHANGES...A HAPPY AND SATISFIED PERSON CAN GIVE BETTER RESULTS!!!ONE CANNOT RUNAWAY OF RESPONSIBILITIES OF GROOMING RESPONSIBLE FUTURE CITIZENS AND TAKING CARE OF FAMILY(SHARED RESPONSIBILITY AT HOME)...ITS A BIG AND IMPORTANT GENUINE CONTRIBUTION TO HUMANITY.

ONCE I HAD ASKED MY DAUGHTER ADITI/CHINU FEW MONTHS BACK..., SHE SHOULD THINK OF GOING INTO POLITICS, WHICH SHE SAID NO, BUT LATER ON SHE REPLIED AFTER 5 YRS, BUT WHEN I SAID "POOT KE PAON PALNE MEIN HI DIKHTEIN HEIN"...SHE WENT WITH FEW OF HER FRIENDS TO ATTEND AND SUPPORT ONE OF HER CLASSMATE's GAY'S 'PRIDE PARADE'...!!!

TO BE CONTINUED....WELL, WHETHER IT IS TITLE SONG OF A SERIAL-'YUG'.." BAAT DESH KI KARTA THA WOH,AAPNE DESH PER MARTA THA WOH,AAPNE LIYE HII JINE LAGA KYON,YUG BADLA-BADLA HINDUSTAAN.'.....WHETHER ITS A NDA's AGENDA IN 1999-'BHUK,BHAYE AUR BHRASTRACHAAR KE KHILAAF EK SAMARTH AUR SWABHIMAANI BHAARAT'...WHETHER IT IS NDA's 'INDIA SHINING' IN 2004 OR UPA's 'JAI HO'IN 2009...WITHOUT WOMEN'S EQUAL PARTICIPATION IN ALL THE LEVEL AND EVERYWHERE, RICH OR POOR...COUNTRY WON'T PROSPER IN A FAST PACE.