I have never asked for anything from anyone....not even from my parents...except getting tiffin packed twice or thrice...from close friends or at family members house...that also agar khana kuch manpasand ho aur bach gaya ho...I don't believe in taking or giving gifts...except from family members or close friends....that also useful token gifts....so there is no chance of getting corrupt in our family...if leave aside minor points no body is a law breaker....
I promised myself that I'll try not to speak a lie, not to eat non-veg food or not to offer drink....I am successfully trying to do this....and will do it in future....every other members are free to take their decisions...but I know every one is controlled person and who has habbit of taking little bit are trying to live it. I think if something is bad for Health, one should avoid it. Best wishes to every one...
This world is a stage and we all are acting.... but no more acting from my side...as I am not ready to take anyone's rudeness...and will try not to be rude to others or sound 'Ghamandi' if ever I sound like that....at times to provoke someone to do something I say something...for example, when Sudhirji's near one was saying its a shame...we don't even have a Political leader except an Italian lady...I told them, why don't they fight election...and be one...don't they have leadership quality??...If I hurt somebody in someway...will try to not to do that...Vaise Bade se Chote, Sabhi ko eksaath Khush rakhna mushkil hai....and I am not going to do that anymore.....my direct responsibility is Aditi and Sudhirji and Ma -Babuji(if they are living with us).Indirectly I believe we have responsibilities of everything in the world what we share,including...Mother nature.

Lets do some personal talk;
Sudhirji's book release ' No Prime Minister' was good event, atleast 30 channels,newpaperswalas came but only 20 has shown it...it got covered by radio and internet press as well...He thought he could have made it more successful... best wishes to him for every new day and every new event...I am always there to support him and Aditi...and I am really happy that he took even my name as his inspiration...well, thats the best compliment any wife can get...Thanks, though It does not matter if he wouldnot have mentioned it as I know I do matter to him.

We went to Election Commissioner Quereshi saheb's house...Nice musical evening....Sudhirji is their fixed lead singer...he himself playing guitar and casio...Brian silas on Piano...Sudhirji sang Mh.Rafi's song...nice evening....Sudhirji do have fan following as a singer...nice to know....it reminds me of 'hum dil de chuke sanam' film where Salman Khan an NRI from Italy...was a good singer and gave his cartoons,instead of his photo's to Aishvariya...deadly combination.

Somebody telling him he must have wooed me by singing not by cartoons...that's not true, I liked everything about him...I lost little bit of my sense of humour at times...or few yrs back, as I was trying to convince people about something...which was not in my hand...and 'Bayanbazi's,.. naturally nobody believed it...now it does not bother me much...its not that only I was misunderstood by others...I think even his cartoons..were misread...my point of view is 'cartoons are mixture of idea,humour,satire in one line,and its visual presentation, which has bit of exxageration in idea and bit of distorted look which is called Caricature...and people likes it'. Even Cartoonist Shankar Pillai was told by his friend PM Nehruji 'Never spare me Shankar'...definetly I will say the same, though actually one need to be in News for being in a Political Cartoons....so no opposition and infighting over this topic at home. We are not 'jhele rahe hain ek dusre ko', we are 'jhel rehe hein' all kind of situations together, koyi thoda zyada, koyi thoda kam.

About getting 'misunderstood', for example, I'll be able to explain by an example of 'Shanti' serial where a journalist girl 'Shanti' was fighting for injustice done to her Mazdoor mother who was raped by two film industry personalities...and for her paternal identity, got DNA test done...in between a day come when she was 'framed' for corruption and her own mother who doted on her...thought she took bribery and gave her 'gavahi' against her and said bhall-bura...tu mar kyon nahi gayi...kind of words...and on that basis she got into jail....though this was first TV daily soap full of masaledar twist and turns...whether its Shanti, Priya,Manisha, Tulsi, Parvati , Prerna and so on....this incidence of 'misunderstanding' about bribery or theft ...got repeated...I think life is like this...in so many yrs every ones thinking changes or evolved...

Yesterday Aditi's two college friends were here, as they are doing 'applied art' I was asking various questions related to contemprary ads and their life in general...Its nice to talk to young generation...they gave me satisfiying answer...no over reaction, no anger, no shyness...with very maturity they answered me...though I tried 'reverse psychology 'and gave 'ulta comments' to get right answers, or to puzzled them, but they had clarity in their views...atleast Aditi and Shubham has...Pallavi came for first time so not talking much...I asked them their reaction about yesterdays news -4yrs old girl got raped by his father... they told me...these kind of people should kept in mental asylum....I told them I have done 4 page(broadsheet) story on 'Sexual abuse in general' -covering its all aspects, law, interviewed psychologist(Aruna broota)... I don't know why I thought I should talk to them...but I am happy now onwards I don't have to repeat these topics any more as I got very sane and positive answers....Shubham is a Gay boy...I did ask some 'Straight' question to him, read his blog..which has his gay confession ...well, what can he do about his genetical problem...getting embarrassed and hurt...I stopped...I think I was bit insensitive...even his parents are...but he is an intelligent, sensitive...bangali delhite...I have no problem if Aditi is his friend...so now no looking back...as every next day is a new day....

When I mentioned about Aditi and her group of ten friends went to see 'Football World Cup semi final' at Max-muller bhavan and 'World Cup Final' at 'Agni-Park Hotel' whole night ...after her 12th board exams....they accepted that they are bit nalayak ....like watching sports and films...need to be more self disciplined...good wishes to all of them.

I Rajasthani, I Bihari talk is still going on...I think little bit more time is needed to fill this divide...I told them,I am a proud Bihari-Rajasthani who lives in Delhi and occasionally go to bihar or Rajasthan(more often )...but can cook rajasthani food and like wearing Rajasthani prints and fabrics....may not be 'Perfect' but not a ignorant...anyway , I am not angry with any one and now onwards promise myself not to crack 'Sade hue' jokes.

Menifesto

Now I will say some points in their favour.
1-Menifesto is good and its covered all strata and their Problems.
2-It covered every Big and Small Problems our country is facing... as it came later on so it covered those points also which Congeress missed...
...I was writing it a week ago...in between many things happen...latest was shoe throwing...laluji's comment...and so many 'soundbites' which makes one feel ashamed of democracies misuse....and I don't understand why only Varun Gandhi is Punished...I will sure EC will take action against them.

BJP Menifesto-

Heard news of BJP Menifesto getting released after 11yrs....saw clippings. Saw Nitishji's reaction...

Advaniji was talking about Idealism not being imaginary thing and Gandhiji 'RamRajya' can become reality...If they get mandate? He was talking about Corruption free government, then he should not give tickets to atleast Corrupt and Criminals(done henious crimes)candidates...(otherwise he won't get candidates)-I don't know how many wrong candidates are in NDA but definetly I will do research work before giving vote to any candidate in East Delhi...and I can say it Proudly that I and Sudhirji is regular voters...and Aditi is first timer,she voted for vidhan sabha elections few months back... He should..without making it a prestige issue ,follow his conscience and Arun Jaitley's reluctancy in Neera Yadav Candidature...Can he do this?...I believe Media will appreciate it.Vaise its their Aander ka Mamla, but in Democracy...anybody can suggest anything in their blog...Sudhirji reads alot so I am sure he'll more then I.

Baba Ramdev's programme.

Yesterday I saw Aastha Channel, Baba Ramdev has invited few famous Media persons(two of them are women), as a speaker to motivate people...topic was related to media and democracy. Baba Ramdevji is doing great job of making people concious about their health, and helping them from over coming their health problems....Yog is Indian heritage...liked in every corner of the world...specially meditation...Now he is taking up all kind of issues, its good as he is popular and has credibility, so his followers will believe him....Saw a news in Tv that he is forming a Political party...which he denied...Its good as he don't need Satta to do seva... I never liked Osho's philosophy. though I read it...he was more into consumerism and worldliness...by which he gain popularity in urban or foriegner followers...not widely acceptable in Indian Society...There are so many baba's but I think few of them I remember and respect...including Sai Baba of Puttaparti(I have got a chance to meet him), or Shirdi ke Sai Baba (more respected as he himself never said...worship me)...one is Shri Shri Ravi Shankar.I have heard him few times and find his speeches very inspiring as well.
I do believe in Sprituality as I believe -like Newton's gravitational force...there are some forces/shaktiyan do exists which is still Mystery for all of us.

Lets talk about programme, ..Sudhirji was one of the invitees...Programme was inspiring, everyone spoke well...but nodoubt Sudhirji got more appreciation as people were really clapping and laughing on his wit and satire. I think he conveyed his message that Political Cartoons are Parameter of checking democracy...If people (specially High and mighties) after getting rediculed, appreciates you...it means democracy is alive, but if Political cartoons pushed inside or in any corner of the paper and only art directors, designers, illustrators replaced him/her....then it is psuedo democracy or mockery of democracy. I think we Indians are capable of laughing at ourself since Ravan's(ten head), ganesh face(its caricatured), ...birbal, kabir...tanalirama...'s time...and if we are loosing our sense of humour then we should try to regain it.

I have this gut feeling that now I am able to make others understand, family members and outsiders , what I am saying in a better way, well I will try not to do grammeratical or spelling mistakes anymore.Best wishes to me.

NDA v/s UPA

Life for UPA compared to NDA's term is easier regarding Terrorism and Economic crisis issues as now it is recognised as a global issue, and urban voters at least understand these problems...though people who are directly effected won't except these excuses.