my recent experiences

Its nice to hear people's experiences of our neighbourhood...how they were so talented in school days, and secretly learnt creative art,which is their profession now(a beautician)...their parents got surprised when they came to know about their hidden talents...definetly even I think, for creative art and sports...if it is not in family traditionally, its quite difficult to convince parents to allow them and get their whole hearted support as well...for participation and to make it a full time profession...nowadays...becoz of media exposure and many reality shows, people do started to know that singing, dancing and other creative fields can give you NAME, FAME AND MONEY...but then one should think about FLIP SIDE also of any profession before choosing it...as everyone can be AMBITIOUS but cannot reach to the peak,as for that one need to have PASSION or INTEREST...and 100% concentration for it.But then its important to define AMBITION in one's own language...for me its not just a NEED, NAME,FAME,or MONEY...but I work for personal satisfection...and definetly for a search of mission...for me its important to understand why my mind and heart is guiding me to do this work....I do get inspired by GAUTAM BUDDHA and his search for soul and peace...he was followed his inner voice and left his TAZZO-TAKHT for it...even SMARAT ASHOKA left his every aspirations (through violence) to become a Buddhist king later on...and did its PRACHAAR-PRASAR. Same As if a normal nice human being become EGOIST...AAHAANKARI...HE/SHE IS 'FINISHED=SAB KHATM' TILL THEY BURN EGO IN DUSHERRA WITH EFFIGY OF RAVANA...AND TRY TO BE REBORN AS A RAM/SITA. AND DEFINETLY IT DOES NOT HAPPEN BY EATING TIFFINS OR LUNCHES HERE AND THERE OR JUST 'ALLEGED' TO BE CORRUPT...KAHANIYAAN HAIN, KAHAANIYON KA KYA!!!

MY MANTRA IS-KARMANYA VADHIKA RASTE MA FALESHU KADA CHANAH...KARMA KARO AUR PHAL KI ICCHA MAT RAKHO!! I remember when I was asked in an interview for FOCUS TV with bro of the lady owner,-I just said softly one line.'I believe in "Professionalism, My Principals, and Profitability(not Bandh or Badla)"...after that I only reacted on salary matter...next meeting with Madame was quite irritating,though I was silent, as most of the time she was busy with her mobile and sim cards problem etc...and asked me to write ideas...'Pahle Ye karke batain phir queen samjhein, kab layeingi..kal???...!!! I have written it(that night only) but never went again...I think she didn't like my message on phone(I had written pahle aap appointment letter dein phir ideas lein''.) as I was told(I think she wants to take my test)...even I felt something is wrong there....which cameout later in Bhadas Dot com...She was fighting some case with her husband which reflected in her behaviour...but thats their personal problem...then I decided I should do something on my own...its very important for me, definetly thats why I have written in blog as well...now as two long personal topics are deleted, I don't think again I can write it...as now I myself don't know what details I have written there....but definetly I am feeling better.(kam karte raho to gossips, laziness,other shortcomings-as other say, don't get discussed much or you yourself do not bother about it)

Yesterday I met few people in HARDAYAL LIBRARY of M.V.II,I went there to book a Hall for a workshop(its only hall here, and its comes under MCD)...they were really effected by economic reccession...and jobcuts...it is a trust (an NGO) run by MCD DELHI...800 employees are jobless and their lives are getting badly effected...they told me their problems, how they are facing it...few of them attempted SHOLEY's VIRU kind of SUICIDE ATTEMPT...few days back...which got coverage in many local newpaper pages...(they have shown it to me, and I told them about few more gandhigiri attempt by others in different states)) and NCR CHANNELS...they have met every related officers and Politicians...nothing came out of it...did some TODH-FODH at MAYER's office, (its good that no one is their UNION LEADER as most of them are corrupt..as usually...they take money from both the sides(employers and employees)....and losers are these employees)....as even confirmed employees are called frauds and illegal(their appointment is considered illegal now) and got general notice...they do come and sign attendence register daily(shown it to me), without doing any work...they are ready to compromise on their salary money, but want their job permanent...daily wages people are out in the very beginning and the person who appointed them,Mr Ashok Jain is in jail for some murder case...they are in real trouble...they are ready to do GANDHIGIRI or NANA PATEKARGIRI...but want AAR-PAAR decision...rakhein ya ye kahin aur naukari dundhein...latkain na...as MCD is opening new Libraries in DPS schools and in other private groups,but told them that they don't have money for these people(they needed 10 crore rs just for their salaries)....if this branch get closed/or they got kicked off, they may get few months money(SALARY) and other money(PF, etc) which is mandetory...but if they quit...they may not get much.... !!! These people are recurited triple in number with the assurence of starting new branches in Delhi...but things didn't work out in positive direction.These RED TAPISM,CORRUPTION...IS REAL THREAT IN PROGRESS OF ANY SOCIETY/COUNTRY.

It really shows how one person's problem in family can effect everyone...one girl is engaged and her best qualification is that, she is in govt job...now is afraid that engagement will get broken off, so as a boy got married recently, got dowry, including ALTO car, as he is in govt job...now his marriage is in trouble....endles problems.

CAN ANYONE HELP THEM??? ARE SHEILAJI OR KUNWAR SENJI LISTENING TO US??? PLZ DO SOMETHING FOR THEM...THEY REALLY NEED IMMEDIATE RELIEF.I AM WRITING THIS NOT AS THEIR SPOKESPERSON BUT BECOZ OF INSAANIYAAT.Definetly i wanted to react after knowing both the sides.

Today I came to know that notice is served to all of them of termination by 26th Sept...they are fighting case for pending salaries...whatever they may get...BHAHGATE BHUT KI LANGOT HI KAFI HAI...YEH EK KAHAVAT HAI....!!!Good wishes to them for their salary money and future job and life in general.And I want to say that poverty for any reason may make a person sad and a bit weak, but no one is GAANDA...OR NALE KA KIDDA-GATUR KI AULAD(Mazdoor Ki Aulad-Shanti), OR CATTLES...!!! Hey Ram! Om Shanti! Shanti! Shanti! Sabki Jai Ho! As Good or Bad can be anywhere...and it can be rectified by personal effort. Ghav ka sara Mavad Nikal Ker Safai kar di...Ab Aagae Badhte Hain. Ummeed hai log galat interpret nahin karenge...vaise its their prerogative whether they will except my effort and come for my progarmme on 25th oct...I'll organize it. I am happy that Sudhirji told me yesterday that what ever you want to do, just get convince yourself,I'll help you as much as its possible for me.

SOMEONE ASKED ME WHY I DON'T GO AND WORK IN BASTI's ONLY...I BELIEVE EVEN EDUCATED PEOPLE ARE NOT 100% AWARE ABOUT EVERYTHING, THAT'S WHY NO DISTINCTION BETWEEN RICH AND POOR ABOUT CREATING AWARENESS THOUGH PROBLEMS IN DIFFERENT LOCALITIES ARE DEFINETLY DIFFERENT....!!

On 25th october 2009, 5pm to 7pm,at HARDAYAL PUBLIC LIBRARY COMMUNITY CENTRE, POCKET-F, MAYUR VIHAR-II, DELHI-91, Our NGO ADITI FOUNDATION is organizing a HEALTH AWARENESS WORKSHOP, for neighbourhood people(local audience), in which we will have interactive discussion about ARTHRIRIS, about people's participation in health services and Role/use of RTI, and Health and Human Rights in Brief. Demonstration of YOGA effective in Arthritics, and Free Bone Density Test.

ADITI FOUNDATION's objective is 'SAMPURNA VIKAS' of a person which includes personality devolopment and spiritualism(SANSKAR)and0 as well,Awakening campaigm 'JAGEN HUM'...awareness effort about basic things around us which we are ignorent of, which means freedom from 3'P's-Psychological, Physical, and Professional problems....!!! It is MOSTLY focused on Women,Child and Senior Citizens.

Its a mission for us and a way of breaking jinx as well that 'Social causes' effecting people's lives around shouldn't become curse for us. I am hoping that People from neighbourhood will come in numbers so that they get benefit of our effort and that will be our SUCCESS, and we'll be able to do much more next month and in forth coming years.My mission is to make Health and Education -SAMPURNA VIKAS a mass movement. But any such effort is benificial if it is a collective effort, as for us only I, Sudhirji, Aditi, Ma, Babuji are permanent members of this foundation....others are "people, experts of different fields and common persons, who are our workforces who will participate in big numbers, and contribute as speaker and share their expertise or sponsor or contribute in whatever manner, when neccessary. Even Press People who will cover it and help us in spreading Social Causes and do constructive contribution towards our society, country, and humanity. As I think even one drop contribution of every single person can make our leaders think that we live for purpose and not just for chair, we think about mission, want result, outcome to get implemented and not just for next election. We all will contribute in making this world beautiful place to live. Best Wishes to ADITI FOUNDATION. Definetly I would like to spread work of Aditi Foundation in different part of Delhi and definetly in other states....!!!

After much JOSH in NEIGHBOURHOOD about our ADITI FOUNDATION's HEALTH AWARENESS WORKSHOP on ARTHRITIS ON 25TH OCT-5 TO 7PM,2009,....FLUCTUATION in people's mood about participating in it and clash in timing with one more programme of senior citizen's organization in Pocket -E M.V-II, ...finally programme was good, people liked the interactive lecture by Doctor Shri Anil Arora, and Yoga Demo by lady Dr Rama Vinayak...Anchored by Sudhirji and bit of details about ADITI FOUNDATION by me, whole event was photographed by Aditi. and BONE DENSITY test sponsored by Dr.Saheb's Company.... I am sure people got benefited by it. One point which I wanted is...our mission is to create awareness and educate people about health, basic things around us, and about freedom from phychological, physical, and professional problems-to be self relaint, as it will give them dignity and self respect.....Free bone density test or inviting celebrity experts-if neccessary(no gimmicks plz) is not to attract numbers only and to dilute seriousness of the topic...but to present all aspect of THE TOPIC. Getting free offers are discount or doing free work for charity, in free time or as a mission, are not to get distracted from main topic or lakhshya. Aditi, Sudhirji, Babuji and evem me has organisational skills,knowledge, experiences(though most of us are busy with their own work and studies, which is very important either, but vaqt tooo nikalna hi padhta hai.....agar chahein tooo) but people of different localities reacts differently on different occassions and topics...so every new programme is a new experience....and our success is not just to reach to the people in quantity or in numbers but to touch their heart, reach to it and make them think and make them part of social churning...to get right results...We'll try to grow with them, work with them.Thanks to all who came, and wish that who didn't came this time, should also come next time.


May be like film MOHABBETEIN's Guru-Shishya....though it was just a love story and Haar-Jeet of Father and Son-in-law....but definitly we all want to spread love,self discipline and not hatred...suicides ......indiscipline!!!Its quite stupid to mention movies every time....but to clear the weather, at times we need to do that, as we all do relate with them somehow. Though I would like my daughter to marry where we want her to, with her consent, and We do believe that she'll do that. Let her complete her studies first.

Sudhirji is a great supporter of me and aditi...always ready to help, not miser in financial matters as well, whenever neccessary....but he need to be convinced first...and now I have to convince him that god has given birth to me or all of us, to do more substaintial/serious work and not just for mauj-masti, time-pass(I know, he do understand this, and doing serious works...I don't think anyone can make Political cartoons,just like that). Definetly home comes first(as I do think even I am a homely person as well)!!!...but CHATUKARITA WON'T DO, AS I AM NOT A CHARAAN And if a person has Global thinking, its not bad(one need to have global personality/appeal with indian essence, a vibrant and mordern india do need this progressive thinking with traditional coverings...if one can have any minor bad habits(or otherwise they go to rehab centre or see a docter/therapists,etc...or go to jail..)...it can be rectified by his/her Will Power...for getting inspired for this, one can read 'EXPERIMENTS WITH THE TRUTH of MAHATMA GANDHIji...how he evolved and changed his life...and others as well.

For Aditi foundation's work... People usually think NGO's are fraud(but physically all family members do helped me...sudhirji did designing of all publicity material-as he used to do it for HT cartoon contest also...earlier), they are just there to make money...so starting from home my first step will be to create MY, AS WELL AS MY NGO's CREDIBILITY,ACCOUNTABILITY,AND WORTH...and for that MY MISSION,AIMs AND OBJECTIVEs FOR WHICH I CREATED THIS PLATFORM. FOR THAT I DO NEED PEOPLE'S SUPPORT ALSO AND NOT NECCESSARYLY ONLY FAMILY'S SUPPORT, INSPITE OF FACT THAT MOST OF THEM ARE BUSY IN THEIR WORK AND STUDIES, OR HOME MAKER's RESPONSIBILTIES.....AND DEFINITLY I DO NOT INTERFERE IN ANYONE's OFFICE WORK...SO I WILL NOT ACCEPT ANYONE's UNNECCESSARY INTERFERENCE ALSO. ITS A SOCIAL ENTREPRENERSHIP(heard this phrase from some TV progmmame) FOR ME AND NOT EXACTLY A BUSSINESS.

I wish Sudhirji also all the best as directly or indirectly, somehow his career, and its future prospects also got sabotaged/damaged to some extent....but he'll have to recover from it- him self( as without being immodest,I am saying/and others do say... that he himself is an ICON....same as Mr Dhoni and Indian cricket team...who need to recover from their own mistakes...by chance/luck or otherwise(they all have much more responsibility on them,as they all are FACES of emerging and rising INDIA/BHARAT/HINDUSTAN....now I wish no more negativity(anger,viiolence,bad behaviour,bad language...bad habbits etc) need to spread, though one need to be cautious and see pros and cons(as its nothing wrong in doing it)...god give me and everyone- this will power,chance,support and way to recover(though I am at home by my choice)...and do good, as all of us need to go miles and miles before getting finished/exhausted, no one is putting kaur in our mouth...I mean will do mouthfeeding . It applies on anyone/everywhere...family,friends and foes!!!By the way when someone said that I am a Mumbaiwala in that gossip blog, as I had mentioned some film and serial...I had replied that I am an Indian who lives in Delhi.Good one no!!! As I told my sis-in-law to come at least once in a month as they all are busy at home/work or studies as well...I said this to my mother that I'll be their to see her as she was unwell...and will come once in a month but then I was told by them...you don't come we do come to meet you all in few months interval....I don't think there is any controversial point in it.

And about My lagaav for MS(koi Doosra???)....I think my family was never been out of my mind...since begining of this year(2009)in www.chinuaditi.blogspot.com and www.vibhatailang.blogspot.com. I have written about nostalgic days when we met...1984...about cartooning and at times Sudhirji on the top of his career, feeling stagnated by today's scenario...about ingredients that makes cartoon,and a cartoonist and what his wife required to be...to be supportive, and behind his success, if possible...and about Chinu/Aditi...her creativity... and today's youth(our next generation) from her eyes and her camera's eyes....etc,So???.

Well then,(first of all I belong to Jharkaand as well, as I am born in Dhaanbad and even my mamuji/other relatives and school friends lives in ranchi)...Captain Mr MS Dhoni(specially)...and the Indian Cricket team...I like sports, and definitly Cricket(if I have time to see...which I had in recent days)...even people around me who used to find it boring, do watch it whenever gets time and has knowledge about it(like me).

...But on the way I had got this feeling that Mr M S Dhoni can be good choice as Bridegroom(Damaad, and it is not a joke) for my daughter(why??..I mentioned it many times...and my views and praise has not changed inspite of Gossips/gupshup,...as its not proved correct yet!!!)...Chinu/Aditi(I am sure she'll listen to us for final decision..though she need to focus on her studies first right now...I feel with these discussions.... get distracted/or in contrary..may be become more focused to do something(vaise she is focused in her work, and do know about her priorities),or may be if we really finalized everything...she may become more focused!!...Well whatever will happen...one thing is for sure she is very lucky...and I am sure god will guide her and take(store for her) good/best decisions...)...though initially I thought MS likes someone else on the basis of gossips(as suddenly I/we reached there and started following,which included other cricketers news as well)....but now it seems to me otherway round as these 2 gossip blogs related about him, stopped gossiping and mentioning anyone's name. Neither it is there in TV Gossips, even I am not 'Bitching'???...need to recover from this bimari???".

I think he was copying us/or ....or somehow relating to past gossips, but then bachelors/their parents... do need to have choices before finallising PERFECT Bride/Bridegroom(not talking about serials)....or to be in SWAYAMBER. And now no one is doing honour killing anymore at our home as well...per daabbe hue sanskar (many times its good, but at times these rigidities become mentalblocks..)...kabhi-kabhi uubhaar aatein hain. As fuedalism still exists in our society, and in our mind....or even in people of other neighbouring countries...and in their mindset. But then one more point is- as like Sudhirji, everyone is not that modest.Kucch natak, kucch vichaaron mein badlao...jivan chalta rahta hai.

Dainik bhaskar's ad in which Mr M.S. Dhoni is fighting for common man saying abhi nahin bade ho ker zidd karo...'ZIDD KARO DUNIYA BADLO'....ji aaj zarurat hai ki hum saab ghar ho,ya bahar...sahi ke liye zidd karen, sahi banne ne ki liye zidd karen,galat na hone dene ki zidd karein....itni zidd ki log sunnne ko majboor ho aur aapke liye her bandh raste khulein... buraiyon se ladenein ki zidd karien, buraiyon ke kilaf jung,galatiyon ko rokene ki jung, ...buren banne ki zidd na karein!!....aur iske liye sahi/galat ki samajh ko viksit karna zaruri hai joki sabhi ke aander maujood hai.

vyakti patther ko bhi poojta hai to vah bhagvan ho jata hai...yeh ushke swayam ke aander ki shakti hai....fhir sahi kyon nahi ban sakta.Iske liye swechha se koi deadline tai ki ja sakti hai per isska koi expiry date nahi hota.Poojo to bhagvan hai na poojo pashan...Aissa kamalhaasan ne aapne latest film DASHAVTAAR mein gane ke bol mein likha hai.

Recently writing here in blog I have mentioned few movies,serials,ads, which we can relate with, which colours and shades can effect our life...though mentioning these things dilutes issues generally...as if we all start inacting/living these characters....(Manoj Bajpai of Shool, office-office, Saans,Hu-Tu-Tu, Shaanti, Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu thi, kahani ghar ghar ki...Hazar Chaurasi ki ma....Boney kapoor's movies...ISSUES depicted in it)...Subhash Ghai/ Sanjay leela Bhansali...Hum Dil de chuke sanam, Fhir bhi dil hai hindustani, Nayak, Mohabbatein, Khoobhsurat,Godmother,(FICTIONS)...etc...many of us will become villians...so its better not to be....not to spread and aggravate bad things!!!....but as everything exists in our society sadiyon se...good or bad, and so do all kind of emotions as well... and we have responsibilities that saadiyon se chaali aa rahi buraiyon ka aant na ho sake to vah zyada faile bhi na...in sabka kahin to aaant ho!!! isliye jo galat hai usse sahi ka jama pahnane ke bajaye....sahi karne ke liye samadhan dhoondhein, baton ko sahi sandharbh,context mein dekhein aur samjhein.Sahi udaharan,example banein...!!!

Picchale dinon/sallon tak hum sab kya baddbadate rahe...likhte rahe...kisne kya kaha...kis sandarbh mein kaha, kis mannastithiyon mein kaha, kis paristhitiyon mein kha, gambhirta se kaha ya vaise hi passing comment ya natak tha...Tu-Tu main main tha ya soch vichaar ker kahi batein thi...Jinx toddna ho ya, Example set karna maqsad ho....iss babt koyi baat nahin kahni hai abhi mujhe....bas loose ends conclude ker rahi hoon, aur related newz update ker rahi hoon.

I don't want to write about family matters, though everything applies on everyone...but everyone here or around me...are moving in upward and right direction, doing well in their personal life- economically, careerwise, in studies, health...personal relations....things has smoothen up where it had some problems...so! no problems. Every one is focused,talented,balanced, culutured and intelligent enough to solve their own problems....kisi ko koi rok(stop or control) ya daba(pressurised/sideline/supressed) nahin sakta...mann mein hausala, vichaaron mein suljha hua drishtikon,parivaar ka saath ho, to koi bhi kuch achieve ker sakta hai...parivaar mein, Parivaar ke liye...career ke liye...sab contribution Desh ke liye hi hota hai, directly/indirectly.Hamari Ghereloo Cricket team kisi se kum nahin hai...but meri direct responsibilty to sirf hum Paanch ki hi hai. Even big people can live austere life...we have many examples like Late Dr Rajendra Prasad, Late Shri LaL Bahadur Shastriji...even we live simple life without any majboori, what is bad in it!!! But Mahangai can make anyone's life hell...gone were the days when only price rise of onion made a fall of Govt...now "kuchh fark hi nahin padhta".

One of Sudhirji's friend asked me recently why he can't be PM...just becoz he comes late and is bit disorganized??? I think he has all quality to be a very good PM of our country. He is always busy, thats why he is at times late latiff.In chinuaditi.blogspot.com...I have written about Sudhirji,his work and its different dimensions,his personality and Qualities,Popularity, his dynamism...where ever it was important....and suitable....and I am sure in future if he wants to/or get offers for Modelling/being a face /or for causes, he can be not less then anyone, as he is a good anchor...did progamme for DD.And he is very fluent and good in Hindi/English/Urdu...written or spoken, incuding his mother tounge and has knowledge of Sanskrit. I don't think I need to describe his abilities,achievements,honesty,charm and knowledge,....his oratory power....etc, as most of the people know about it. I am proud of him and this facts that he has so many supporters in family and friends and around and they all think so good about him....I do think even creative person can be good administer or visionary PM....as Nehruji was.

Good wishes to Saurav Ganguly and Sachin Tendulkar who got felicitated by Ms Mamta Banerjee yesterday (24/12/09) and got lifetime free passes for travelling by train....!!!....Their life(including Sudhirji) inspired me also to do something to get praised and win accolades by family,friends and people around us...2010 will be year for me to do effort to work beyond family with taking them along if possible.